How To Pursue Goals without Striving (with Stephen Zerfas)

How To Pursue Goals without Striving (with Stephen Zerfas)

Published: July 24, 2026

Duration: 1:31:56

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Why can the same meditation technique produce emotional openness in one person and dissociation in another? How can meditators tell whether they are cultivating equanimity or merely numbing themselves? Why is meditation unusually difficult to teach compared with visible skills like tennis or music? Can live narration, experimentation, and tacit knowledge transfer solve meditation’s feedback problem? What can shifts in breathing, smiling, memory, and loving kindness reveal about the nervous system? How do practitioners learn to enter deeply blissful states without grasping for them? Are the jhanas distractions, training wheels, or po...