The FlameWalker Podcast with Kaleah

Have you ever felt like everyone around you is narcissistic—lacking empathy, accountability, and self-awareness? Have you found yourself exhausted, burned out, or slowly withdrawing from social spaces and wondering what’s wrong with you? In this episode of The FlameWalker Podcast, Kaleah explores why it can feel like we’re living in a narcissistic society—and why you’re not imagining it. While psychology often cites that only a small percentage of people meet the criteria for Narcissistic Personality Disorder, narcissistic traits and behaviors are increasingly normalized and rewarded in our culture. Image is prioritize...

In this episode of The FlameWalker Podcast, Kaleah explores what it truly means to find your true self after a toxic relationship. When a relationship is abusive, controlling, or emotionally unsafe, healing is not just about leaving the other person — it’s about reclaiming the parts of yourself you were forced to abandon in order to survive. Many people coming out of toxic relationships, including relationships with narcissists or emotionally unavailable partners, feel disconnected from their identity, unsure of who they are, and afraid to trust themselves again. This episode examines how self-abandonment, lack of boundaries, people-pleasing, and...

In this episode of The FlameWalker Podcast, Kaleah speaks directly to one of the most painful and persistent traps people fall into when caught in abusive or narcissistic relationships: the belief that if they just love harder, explain better, or stay long enough, the other person will finally change. Drawing on over twenty years of experience helping people recover from narcissistic abuse, Kaleah dismantles the illusion of “rehabilitating” an abuser and explains why this dynamic is never an even playing field. While the empath or trauma-bonded partner is emotionally invested and bonded, the narcissist is attached only to s...

If you are empathic, emotionally open, and tend to see the good in others, setting boundaries with people who repeatedly hurt you can feel almost impossible. You may tell yourself that you love them, that they didn’t mean it, or that this time will be different. But love without accountability becomes self-abandonment. In this episode of The FlameWalker Podcast, Kaleah explores the difference between loving actions and unloving behavior, and why tough love is sometimes the most compassionate choice — especially when dealing with chronic disrespect, emotional abuse, addiction, or narcissistic personalities. ✂️Cut the Cord...

In this episode of The Flamewalker Podcast, Kaleah LaRoche explores the complex relationship between narcissism, entity attachment, and personal empowerment. She discusses how many individuals recovering from narcissistic abuse perceive the disorder not merely as a psychological issue but as a form of entity possession. Kaleah emphasizes the importance of recognizing one's own power and the role of light in dispelling darkness. Through her unique blend of shamanism and hypnotherapy, she guides listeners towards healing and reclaiming their true selves, encouraging them to embrace their inner light and dispel the shadows that seek to diminish their worth.<...

In this episode of The FlameWalker Podcast, Kaleah LaRoche explores what really happens when you finally walk away from toxic relationships—especially those involving individuals with Cluster B personality disorder traits such as narcissism or borderline personality disorder. Kaleah breaks down the patterns of projection, blame, gaslighting, and narrative control that keep empathic and truth-telling people stuck in harmful dynamics. She shares personal experiences of stepping out of these systems and explains why walking away becomes not just necessary, but transformational. This episode highlights the power of choosing self-respect, emotional freedom, and truth over distortion—and...

In this episode of The FlameWalker Podcast, Kaleah explores the deeper reality of Group Think — how it shapes society, politics, online communities, and most importantly, how it infiltrates families, toxic relationships, and narcissistic systems. The Hive Mind Effect doesn’t only influence large groups of people. It happens when one controlling individual shapes your reality, overrides your intuition, and slowly leads you away from your own truth. This is the same psychological blueprint behind narcissistic abuse, cult programming, smear campaigns, and flying monkey behavior. If you’ve ever doubted your perceptions, stayed silent to avoid backla...

Why do you keep attracting partners who shut down emotionally, withdraw, or go cold when you need connection the most? If you’re empathic, sensitive, or deeply feeling, you may find yourself drawn to people who can’t meet you emotionally — and in this episode, we’re going to explore why. In this episode of The Flamewalker Podcast, Kaleah talks about the real reasons emotionally unavailable people show up in your life, and why so many empaths end up doing the emotional heavy lifting in their relationships. We’ll look at personality patterns, unconscious attraction styles, unhealed wounds, an...

In this episode of The FlameWalker Podcast, Kaleah uncovers the real reason you keep betraying yourself in relationships — especially after narcissistic abuse, childhood trauma, or growing up in a dysfunctional family system. When you come from a family where your sensitivity, authenticity, or emotional truth wasn’t welcomed, you learn to survive by abandoning yourself. You learn to silence your voice, minimize your needs, and become who others need you to be. Over time, this pattern shows up everywhere: in friendships, work environments, marriages, spiritual communities, and even in your relationship with yourself. This episode expl...

Have you noticed that as you heal, you’re outgrowing people you once felt close to? You’re not imagining it — and you’re not doing anything wrong. In this episode of The FlameWalker Podcast, Kaleah uncovers what really happens to your relationships when you begin to heal from narcissistic abuse, codependency, and other trauma. As you raise your standards, set boundaries, and reconnect with your true self, some people will fade out of your life — especially those invested in keeping things exactly as they are. This episode is for you if you feel lonely, misunderst...

What if the intrusive thoughts you battle were never yours to begin with? What if the shame, fear, and self-hatred inside you is the narcissist’s inner demon — projected onto you until it becomes your own inner voice? In this episode of The FlameWalker Podcast, Kaleah uncovers the spiritual and psychological mechanics behind narcissistic abuse — how a narcissist externalizes their unhealed darkness and implants it into the mind of someone who is empathic, spiritually open, and trauma-bonded to them. When a narcissist refuses to face their own shame, their demons look for a new host. Their...

Have you ever wondered why you keep finding yourself in the same kind of toxic or narcissistic relationships—no matter how much you know, heal, or grow? In this episode of The FlameWalker Podcast, Kaleah LaRoche dives deep into the hidden layers that keep us stuck in repeating narcissistic abuse patterns. Kaleah shares her own story of awakening through multiple relationships with narcissistic partners and explores the deeper dynamics behind the attraction: The false self that mirrors the narcissist’s illusion The fear of being alone and the belief we need someone to c...

Have you ever felt like everything in your life was falling apart — your identity, your relationships, your sense of purpose — and you couldn’t find your way back? You may be going through what mystics call The Dark Night of the Soul. In this episode, I share a deep dive into the Seven Stages of the Dark Night of the Soul — what triggers it, how it feels, and how to navigate the transformation that comes through it. The Dark Night isn’t punishment. It’s an initiation — a sacred passage that strips away what is false so your true self...

When you leave a narcissistic relationship, it can feel like your entire world collapses. The reality you once lived in has shattered, and what remains is confusion, anxiety, and emotional shock. This is PTSD after narcissistic abuse. In this episode, Kaleah LaRoche explores what happens when the illusion of love crumbles and you awaken to the truth. She explains how narcissists construct false realities, how we unconsciously abandon ourselves to survive them, and how to begin rebuilding life on the solid ground of truth.   Are you looking for a Narcissistic Abuse Support Group? W...

In this conversation, Kaleah explores the importance of feeling and embracing emotional pain as a pathway to healing. She discusses the societal conditioning that encourages avoidance of pain and speaks to the necessity of navigating through it, particularly in the context of narcissistic abuse recovery and the dark night of the soul. Kaleah emphasizes the significance of emotional expression and the role of support in the healing process, advocating for a deeper understanding of one's pain as a means to achieve true healing. This is a raw and real conversation about emotional honesty, inner child...

In this episode of the Flamewalker Podcast, Kaleah explores the dynamics of online interactions, particularly focusing on the phenomenon of trolls and energy vampires. She discusses how these individuals often mask their insecurities and hunger for significance by attacking others online. The conversation emphasizes the importance of self-awareness and detachment in protecting one's energy from these negative influences. By recognizing the triggers and choosing not to engage, individuals can reclaim their power and maintain their inner light against the darkness of online negativity. Are you looking for a Narcissistic Abuse Support Group? We are now...

The Dark Night of the Soul is not an ending. It is a sacred passage — a time when everything you thought you were begins to fall away, and the true essence of your being starts to emerge. It can feel like death, but within that darkness, a profound rebirth is taking place. In this episode, Kaleah LaRoche shares the deeper meaning of this initiation and how to move through it with grace, courage, and faith. When life takes you into the unknown, remember — the night is not meant to destroy you. It is meant to awaken you. <...

Are you struggling to heal after a relationship with a narcissist? In this powerful episode, Kaleah LaRoche — survivor, author, and trauma recovery guide — takes you deep into the hidden dynamics of Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) and the soul-crushing aftermath of narcissistic abuse. You’ll learn why narcissists seem unaffected while their targets are left shattered, how they drain your life force as energy vampires, and why this goes beyond psychology — it’s a spiritual sickness that leaves deep emotional and spiritual trauma in its wake. If you’re experiencing: emotional flashbacks and PTSD con...

In this powerful final episode of Pandora’s Box Radio, Kaleah LaRoche announces the transition to her new show, The Flamewalker Podcast. She reflects on twelve years of guiding souls through narcissistic abuse recovery, shadow work, and spiritual awakening — and shares how her own rebirth has led her to explore narcissism as a deeper spiritual pattern: a collective identity hijack and an invitation to reclaim our divine light. This is both a farewell and a new beginning. Follow Kaleah into the next level — where recovery becomes revelation.  The Flamewalker podcast can be accessed right here where y...

In this deeply personal and reflective episode, Kaleah shares her experience of living on the road in her truck camper and the deeper questions that arise when the outer world no longer feels like home. What does it really mean to come home—not to a place, but to yourself? Through raw honesty and spiritual insight, Kaleah explores the importance of setting intentions rooted in desire rather than escape, the power of solitude, and the transformative journey of choosing yourself again and again. She speaks to the loneliness many of us face, the illusions of romantic fulfillment, an...