Beauty in Battle Podcast
byJason Benham, Tori Benham
EducationChristianityReligionSpiritualitySocietyCultureRelationships
Beauty in Battle is a high-energy conversation for married couples to help you energize your relationship, give you purpose, and draw you close to your spouse by turning the tension that divides you into energy that fuels you. In this podcast, Jason and Tori Benham share the stories of their relationship and the practical ways they turned conflict and quarrels into passion and purpose by leaning into their struggles rather than trying to avoid them. As a result, they discovered that fighting together drew them together. Their message is clear - you don’t need to stop fighting; you need to...
Episodes(40 episodes)
Episode 183
Three Core Desires
Contact UsIn this episode, we unpack three core desires of the masculine and feminine heart—and how understanding them can help you pursue each other, share life together, and keep the spark alive in your marriage. Enjoy!
Published: Sep 8, 2026Duration: 27m 50s
Episode 182
Three Keys To Staying On Track
Contact UsRelational difficulties don’t have to derail your marriage. In this episode, we share Three Keys to Staying on Track when tension hits—helping you protect your peace, keep the right perspective, and move forward together instead of getting stuck in the conflict. Enjoy
Published: Aug 25, 2026Duration: 32m 2s
Episode 181
Two Core Needs
Contact UsEvery marriage is built on core needs. In this episode, we unpack Ephesians 5 to explore both our individual needs and our relational needs—and how understanding the difference can strengthen your connection, deepen intimacy, and transform your marriage. Enjoy!
Published: Aug 12, 2026Duration: 26m 34s
Episode 180
Fighting Familiarity (revisited)
Contact UsJoin us as we unpack the dangers of familiarity, what causes it, and how to overcome it so you can grow closer to your spouse instead of drifting apart. In this episode, we're revisiting what we shared four years ago because its timeless principles are just as relevant today. Enjoy!
Published: Jul 28, 2026Duration: 31m 45s
Episode 179
Managing Conflict Through Curiosity
Contact UsConflict isn't meant to divide you—it's meant to connect you. In this episode, discover how replacing assumptions with curiosity can help you uncover what's really beneath the conflict and build a stronger marriage. Enjoy.
Published: Jul 15, 2026Duration: 22m 37s
Episode 178
Four Relationship Killers
Contact UsDr. John Gottman, one of the world's leading marriage researchers, identified four behaviors that predict relationship failure. He calls them the "Four Horsemen." In this episode, we'll unpack all four and show you how to overcome each of them. Enjoy.
Published: Jun 30, 2026Duration: 26m 26s
Episode 177
Overcoming Anger In Marriage
Contact UsAnger isn’t the problem—it’s a signal pointing to something deeper. In this episode, we uncover four root causes of anger in marriage and share practical, biblical ways to address them. Enjoy!
Published: Jun 10, 2026Duration: 28m 11s
Episode 176
Three Rules For Relationships
Contact UsHealthy relationships are built on the right rules. In this episode, we unpack three powerful principles that can transform your marriage. When couples stop fighting for position and start fighting for connection, everything changes. Enjoy.
Published: May 26, 2026Duration: 23m 39s
Episode 175
Using The Johari Window In Marriage
Contact UsMarriage isn’t just about happiness; it’s about transformation. In this episode, we use the Johari Window to show how your relationship reveals blind spots, uncovers hidden struggles, and deepens intimacy. You're gonna love this one!
Published: Apr 29, 2026Duration: 34m 25s
Episode 174
Getting To The Heart Of Your Man
Contact UsLadies - how do you truly get to the heart of your man? In this episode, we unpack a powerful example from Abigail’s interaction with David in 1 Samuel 25 and reveal five simple but impactful ways to speak to your man’s heart. Enjoy.
Published: Apr 16, 2026Duration: 27m 20s
Episode 173
Getting To The Root Of Anxiety
Contact UsAnxiety in marriage doesn’t just show up—it has roots. In this episode, we walk through a simple four-step framework to help you identify what’s really driving anxiety. When you get to the root, you can respond with clarity, support your spouse better, and move toward lasting peace together.
Published: Mar 26, 2026Duration: 41m 46s
Episode 172
Anxiety's Three Damaging Effects
Contact UsIn this episode, we unpack the three damaging effects of anxiety and how it quietly takes control. Understanding these patterns is the first step to breaking anxiety’s grip and learning how to respond with clarity, courage, and faith.This episode is based on our newely released book: Unshakeable: A Proven Plan To Crush Anxiety, Defeat Overwhelm, And Conquer The Fears That Freak You Out. Grab your copy HERE.
Published: Mar 4, 2026Duration: 32m 47s
Episode 171
Dealing With Anxiety In Marriage
Contact UsAnxiety doesn’t just affect individuals—it impacts marriages. In this episode, based on our new book Unshakeable, we talk about how to deal with anxiety together as a couple and the three-step process to set you free. Peace in marriage is possible—and it starts with becoming unshakeable together.Grab a copy of UNSHAKEABLE: A Proven Plan To Crush Anxiety, Defeat Overwhelm, And Conquer The Fears That Freak You Out
Published: Feb 23, 2026Duration: 34m 20s
Episode 170
The Power Of The Pivot
Contact UsHow you respond to pain determines whether you stay stuck or step into strength. In this episode, we explore two keys that help couples process emotions and drawing closer together at the same time.
Published: Feb 2, 2026Duration: 32m 44s
Episode 169
Lessons From 25 Years Together (p2)
Contact UsIn Part 2 of our anniversary series, it’s my (Jason's) turn. In this episode, I'm sharing five lessons I've learned that have shaped my marriage and helped us grow stronger through every season. Enjoy.
Published: Jan 8, 2026Duration: 21m 6s
Episode 168
Lessons From 25 Years Together (p1)
Contact UsToday we celebrate 25 years of marriage (please, hold your applause!). In this episode, Tori shares five lessons she’s learned along the way. In the next episode, I’ll share my five from our two and a half decades together. Enjoy.
Published: Dec 29, 2025Duration: 39m 16s
Episode 167
Dodging Relational Drift
Contact UsBusyness doesn’t kill intimacy—drifting does. In this episode, we unpack how small, unguarded moments lead to danger in marriage. You’ll learn the four-stage drift progression and simple ways to close the gap. Drift isn’t failure; it’s feedback. Enjoy.
Published: Dec 17, 2025Duration: 30m 43s
Episode 166
Why You Keep Having The Same Argument
Contact UsMost couples think they’re fighting about dishes or tone—but they’re actually fighting a pattern. In this episode, we unpack the 4-part cycle that keeps conflicts on repeat and show you how to break it. This one will totally reshape how you handle recurring arguments.
Published: Dec 4, 2025Duration: 26m 10s
Episode 165
The Gratitude Reset
Contact UsGratitude is one of the most powerful tools for emotional and relational health. In this special Thanksgiving episode, we explore how gratitude rewires your mind, draws you closer to your spouse, and keeps negativity from taking over your marriage.
Published: Nov 25, 2025Duration: 21m 8s
Episode 164
Breaking Generational Trauma
Contact UsEmotional pain doesn’t end with us—it echoes through generations. In this episode, we unpack Reuben’s story to show how family trauma repeats and three keys that can break the cycle. Enjoy!Oh, and it's that time again - our Beauty In Battle Marriage Retreat in July of 2026. Click HERE for more info. Come hang with us!
Published: Nov 12, 2025Duration: 23m 24s