The Glow Up Secrets

byElicia Goguen

EducationSelf-ImprovementHealthFitnessMentalSocietyCulture

The real glow up isn’t just aesthetic — it’s an inner evolution. Join Elicia every Sunday as she shares the honest, unfiltered secrets behind becoming the person you’re meant to be. Through conversations on self-love, healing, relationships, wellness, womanhood, and personal transformation, The Glow Up Secrets Podcast explores what it truly takes to grow into your highest, softest, most grounded self. If you’re ready for deeper perspectives, gentle reminders, and real-life glow up wisdom… you’re in the right place. ✨🤍🦋The Glow Up Secrets Podcast is available on Youtube, here. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/t...

Episodes(40 episodes)

218. 10 hard TRUTHS about healthy relationships that will help you GROW 🤍 lessons in secure, REAL love 🙏🏼

Thank you Bumble for sponsoring today's video ✨ One point of clarification on our Bumble segment today: On Bumble, all new members in the US are required to verify their phone number and photo. As part of our commitment to a safer, more trusted community, photo verification will soon be mandatory for everyone in the US.Thinking about dating again? Take this as your sign. Start your love story on Bumble. https://bumble.com/ Hi my loves 🦋 In today's episode I discuss some of the most important lessons I'm (always) learning when it comes to building and maint...

Published: Oct 5, 2025Duration: 45m 19s

217. how to stop chasing love & attention from emotionally unavailable people ❤️‍🩹 NO MORE SITUATIONSHIPS

Thank you Bumble for sponsoring today's video ✨ One point of clarification on our Bumble segment today: On Bumble, all new members in the US are required to verify their phone number and photo. As part of our commitment to a safer, more trusted community, photo verification will soon be mandatory for everyone in the US.Thinking about dating again? Take this as your sign. Start your love story on Bumble. https://bumble.com/Hi my loves 🦋 In today's episode I dive deep into why we chase love and attention from emotionally unavailable people and how to final...

Published: Sep 28, 2025Duration: 44m 30s

216. how to RESET your mental health (especially if you're hard on yourself) & feel better about LIFE 🤍

Hi my loves 🦋 In today's episode I give you mindset shifts and habit resets to help you reset your mental health and start feeling better about your life!Work with me 1:1 https://shop.beacons.ai/theglowupsecrets/504d27dc-4092-4216-bb7a-3ca273e7d082My book "the ultimate glow up guide" is available NOW 💗 get it at your local bookstores & online at places like amazon! https://amzn.to/3M4SfGAMy book recommendations can be found here https://amzn.to/4hfP6SbLink to my digital journal guides https://beacons.ai/theglowupsecrets 20 free c...

Published: Sep 21, 2025Duration: 44m 48s

215. how to stop chasing “the next thing” and start loving the season you’re IN! 🦋

Hi my loves 🦋 In today's episode I share with you how I'm currently navigating a season of life where I want things to change but also don't want to take it for granted. Tune into gratitude with me ✨My guided journal series https://a-journey-back-home.teachable.com/l/pdp/a-journey-back-homeMy book The Ultimate Glow Up Guide 💗 https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0GPFQ1JJD?ref=sp_emailMy book recommendations can be found here https://amzn.to/4hfP6Sb20 free credits for classpass! https://classpass.com/refer/MMU78TBR30 My main chan...

Published: Sep 14, 2025Duration: 22m 7s

214. 4 ways to keep yourself OUT of depression & QUIET negative thoughts! Improve your mental health ❤️‍🩹

Hi my loves 🦋 In today's episode I share with you the habits & mindset shifts that keep me from falling into deep depression and self sabotaging cycles, especially after hard season of grief and loss.My guided journal series https://a-journey-back-home.teachable.com/l/pdp/a-journey-back-homeMy book The Ultimate Glow Up Guide 💗 https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0GPFQ1JJD?ref=sp_emailMy book recommendations can be found here https://amzn.to/4hfP6Sb20 free credits for classpass! https://classpass.com/refer/MMU78TBR30 My main channel @eliciagoguen Mood...

Published: Sep 7, 2025Duration: 31m 43s

213. feeling insecure in your relationship? here's how to rebuild your confidence & self-worth 💗

Hi my loves 🦋 In today's episode I dive deep into why we feel insecure in our relationships, doubt them and feel unworthy. I give you REAL advice on how to become more embodied and free from insecurities in hopes that you finally embrace the love you've always deserved 🤍Steph's work https://portal.stephmorris.co/thekeyOpen app (30 days free) https://go.o-p-e-n.com/ELICIA30My guided journal series https://a-journey-back-home.teachable.com/l/pdp/a-journey-back-homeMy book The Ultimate Glow Up Guide 💗 https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0GPFQ1JJD?ref=sp_email<br...

Published: Aug 31, 2025Duration: 35m 10s

212. the TRUTH about rushing marriage, "biological clocks" & feeling behind in life ⏰

Hi my loves 🦋 In today's episode we talk about the pressure to marry young, the myths around biological clocks, and what it really means when you feel like you're falling behind in life. We'll unpack how much of this pressure comes from society versus your own timeline and why waiting often leads to stronger healthier choices. And at the end of the day, I believe it's not all up to us.. there's a bigger plan at play and trusting in God/Spirit with your path can bring peace when the world tells you to rush.Advanced Maternal Pregnancies You...

Published: Aug 24, 2025Duration: 41m 18s

211. how to attract the relationship you’ve been searching for 🤍 stop settling & start aligning 🦋

Hi my loves 🦋 In today's episode I share with you some of the things I did to prepare myself for the relationship of my dreams ✨My guided journal series https://a-journey-back-home.teachable.com/l/pdp/a-journey-back-homeMy book The Ultimate Glow Up Guide 💗 https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0GPFQ1JJD?ref=sp_emailMy book recommendations can be found here https://amzn.to/4hfP6Sb20 free credits for classpass! https://classpass.com/refer/MMU78TBR30My main channel @eliciagoguen All my home, wellness, clothes, self-care faves can be found h...

Published: Aug 17, 2025Duration: 36m 42s

210. how to get out of lack and start noticing the good 🙏🏼 TUNE INTO YOUR BLESSINGS ✨

Hi my loves 🦋 In today's episode I chat with you about getting out of lack and tuning into your blessings 🤍A course in miracles text https://amzn.to/4mw8j4jMy guided journal series https://a-journey-back-home.teachable.com/l/pdp/a-journey-back-homeMy book The Ultimate Glow Up Guide 💗 https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0GPFQ1JJD?ref=sp_emailMy book recommendations can be found here https://amzn.to/4hfP6Sb20 free credits for classpass! https://classpass.com/refer/MMU78TBR30My main channel @eliciagoguen All my home...

Published: Aug 10, 2025Duration: 30m 31s

209. sometimes the next best step is to do NOTHING.

Hi my loves 🦋 In today's episode we catch about what to do when you don't know what to do..The mystic jesus https://amzn.to/4mbhebdMy guided journal series https://a-journey-back-home.teachable.com/l/pdp/a-journey-back-homeMy book The Ultimate Glow Up Guide 💗 https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0GPFQ1JJD?ref=sp_emailMy book recommendations can be found here https://amzn.to/4hfP6Sb20 free credits for classpass! https://classpass.com/refer/MMU78TBR30 My main channel @eliciagoguen All my home, wellness, clothes, self-care...

Published: Jul 27, 2025Duration: 26m 21s

208. the magic happens when you MOVE! a reminder to stop waiting and just START.

Hi my loves 🦋 In today's episode I give you a pepp talk and some helpful tips when it comes to taking action towards your goals, getting out of your own way and no longer waiting for the perfect time!My guided journal series https://a-journey-back-home.teachable.com/l/pdp/a-journey-back-homeMy book The Ultimate Glow Up Guide 💗 https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0GPFQ1JJD?ref=sp_emailMy book recommendations can be found here https://amzn.to/4hfP6Sb20 free credits for classpass! https://classpass.com/refer/MMU78TBR30 My main...

Published: Jul 20, 2025Duration: 29m 21s

207. it's time to wake up.

Hi my loves 🦋 In today's episode I explore the ways in which the world AND we ourselves are keeping us asleep and disconnected to our true essence, soul, spiritual, god.My guided journal series https://a-journey-back-home.teachable.com/l/pdp/a-journey-back-homeMy book The Ultimate Glow Up Guide 💗 https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0GPFQ1JJD?ref=sp_emailMy book recommendations can be found here https://amzn.to/4hfP6Sb20 free credits for classpass! https://classpass.com/refer/MMU78TBR30My main channel @eliciagoguen All my home, wellness...

Published: Jul 13, 2025Duration: 44m 53s

206. your toxic self improvement is creeping up again..

Hi my loves 🦋 In today's episode I give my best advice to those who always feel the pressure to "do better".Journal prompts:1.What is "enough" in your life right now ?2. If you had a wise mother who protected you, loved you unconditionally, met all of your needs.. what would she say to you when it comes to your worries? how would your worries be handled?My guided journal series https://a-journey-back-home.teachable.com/l/pdp/a-journey-back-homeMy book The Ultimate Glow Up Guide 💗 https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0GPFQ1JJD?ref=sp...

Published: Jul 6, 2025Duration: 41m 10s

205. 4 mindset shifts to make when life feels messy, uncomfortable and unfinished.

Hi my loves 🦋 In today's episode I chat with you about the mindset shifts that have helped me CHANGE the way I experience hardship and the natural chaos of life!My guided journal series https://a-journey-back-home.teachable.com/l/pdp/a-journey-back-homeMy book The Ultimate Glow Up Guide 💗 https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0GPFQ1JJD?ref=sp_emailMy book recommendations can be found here https://amzn.to/4hfP6Sb20 free credits for classpass! https://classpass.com/refer/MMU78TBR30 My main channel @eliciagoguen All my home, wellness...

Published: Jun 29, 2025Duration: 22m 54s

204. how to break free from the addiction that quietly controls you.

Hi my loves 🦋 In today's episode I open up and discuss "quiet addictions" and how to break free from toxic habits that no longer serve you 🤍Last weeks episode https://youtu.be/xWXR1pGuBDE?si=3pKi3WBIf9OpMNLjMy guided journal series https://a-journey-back-home.teachable.com/l/pdp/a-journey-back-homeMy book The Ultimate Glow Up Guide 💗 https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0GPFQ1JJD?ref=sp_emailMy book recommendations can be found here https://amzn.to/4hfP6Sb Link to my digital journal guides https://beacons.ai/theglowupsecrets20 free credits f...

Published: Jun 15, 2025Duration: 50m 33s

203. the motivation you need to get out of your rut.

Hi my loves 🦋 In today's episode I give you a little pep talk about getting out of your own way and exiting your "rut X self-sabotage" cycle!20 free credits for classpass! https://classpass.com/refer/MMU78TBR30My guided journal series https://a-journey-back-home.teachable.com/l/pdp/a-journey-back-homeMy book The Ultimate Glow Up Guide 💗 https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0GPFQ1JJD?ref=sp_emailMy book recommendations can be found here https://amzn.to/4hfP6Sb Link to my digital journal guides https://beacons.ai/theglowupsecretsMy main channe...

Published: Jun 8, 2025Duration: 28m 41s

202. the guilt of evolving: shedding identities, outgrowing people & wanting MORE from life 🎙

Hi my loves 🦋 In today's episode we're talking about the messy, beautiful reality of personal growth- the part that no one really prepares you for. If you've ever felt guilty for wanting more out of life, for letting go of old identities, or for outgrowing relationships that no longer align, then this conversation is for you. We'll explore what it means to evolve, the emotional weight of stepping into a new version of yourself, and how to move through the discomfort of change without apologizing for your expansion.Journal Prompts:1. What version of myself am I currently out...

Published: Jun 1, 2025Duration: 24m 27s

201. how to stop assuming the worst and pre-grieving things that haven’t happened yet..

Hi my loves 🦋 In today's episode I discuss the idea of pre-grieving and assuming the worst possible outcomes. I give you my best advice that helps me move through this way of thinking which can keep many of us stuck and spiralling into the same cycles. It's time to set yourself free 🤍Healing generational trauma episode https://youtu.be/vOwXFwJZi4s?si=JyMRjNTlJMST0AQCMy guided journal series https://a-journey-back-home.teachable.com/l/pdp/a-journey-back-homeMy book The Ultimate Glow Up Guide 💗 https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0GPFQ1JJD?ref=sp_emailMy b...

Published: May 25, 2025Duration: 22m 34s

200. it's time to set yourself free from generational trauma & exit survival mode ❤️‍🩹

Hi my loves 🦋 In today's episode I share with you some of the mindset shifts and wisdom I've learned from the process of setting myself free from generational trauma and living in survival mode 💗My guided journal series https://a-journey-back-home.teachable.com/l/pdp/a-journey-back-homeMy book The Ultimate Glow Up Guide 💗 https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0GPFQ1JJD?ref=sp_emailMy book recommendations can be found here https://amzn.to/4hfP6SbMy main channel @eliciagoguen All my home, wellness, clothes, self-care faves can be found here https://www...

Published: May 18, 2025Duration: 25m 18s

199. if you're in the process of change, this message is for YOU 🙏🏼 NEW SEASON, NEW YOU! 🤍

Hi my loves 🦋 In today's episode I talk to you about the process of change and what it really looks like & takes for us to move into a new version of ourselves this season 🤍My guided journal series https://a-journey-back-home.teachable.com/l/pdp/a-journey-back-homeMy book The Ultimate Glow Up Guide 💗 https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0GPFQ1JJD?ref=sp_emailMy book recommendations can be found here https://amzn.to/4hfP6Sb Link to my digital journal guides https://beacons.ai/theglowupsecretsMy main channel @eliciagoguen All my home, we...

Published: May 11, 2025Duration: 23m 42s