CockTales: Dirty Discussions

CockTales: Dirty Discussions

byKiki Said So & Medinah Monroe

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CockTales: Dirty Discussions is hosted by Kiki Said So and Medinah Monroe. Both women are in different stages of their love lives; one single and one in a serious long term relationship. The women give uncensored accounts about their sex and dating lives, relationships, and what it's really like to navigate the sea of love in Atlanta. On CockTales, the ladies gather over great drinks and discuss the latest happenings in their sexual experiences dating lives.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Episodes(40 episodes)

Episode 484
Pretty, Funny & Single: Are We Addicted to the Wrong Men? ft. Keysha E.
This week, we’re joined by comedian Keysha E for a fun, slightly chaotic, and very honest conversation about dating, attraction, and figuring out what we actually want. From celebrity crush debates to whether chemistry is just a toxic addiction (yes, we said it), we get into the difference between a good partner and a good time.We also talk about pretty privilege in comedy, dating in Atlanta vs. LA, finances in relationships, and why “safe” might not be as boring as it sounds. Plus, we answer a listener question about feeling lost in life and share a CockTa...
Published: Mar 20, 2026Duration: 1h 26m 24s
Episode 483
From Intern to CEO: LaToya Shambo on Building a Creator Empire
This week on CockTales: Dirty Discussions, Kiki and Medinah sit down with LaToya Shambo, founder and CEO of Black Girl Digital and creator of Creator Palooza. From building a platform that celebrates Black creators to negotiating million-dollar brand deals, LaToya breaks down what it really takes to build influence into a real business.The conversation dives into entrepreneurship, imposter syndrome, and the realities of the creator economy—plus how to determine your value and confidently negotiate what you’re worth. LaToya shares the lessons she learned from working in advertising and media before launching her own company and expl...
Published: Mar 12, 2026Duration: 1h 29m 7s
Episode 482
Dirty Talk, Passion & The Reality of Modern Womanhood
Kiki and Medinah kick off Women’s History Month reflecting on their own journeys through womanhood — though, as usual, the conversation takes a few hilarious detours. From friendship with exes and the realities of modern dating to motherhood fears, sex, passion, and personal independence, this episode dives into the messy, honest, and sometimes funny realities of being a woman today.Cocktail of the WeekTamarind TeaseIngredients• 1.5 oz vodka• 2 oz tamarind concentrate• 1 oz St. Germain• 1.5 oz agave• 3–4 drops blood orange bitters• Thai chili peppers• Ginger• Fresh mint or basil• Chili...
Published: Mar 5, 2026Duration: 1h 16m 52s
Episode 481
"You Do That Again, I'm Gone." Trey Moe on Love, Accountability, & Growth
This week on CockTales: Dirty Discussions, we sit down with comedian Trey Moe for a conversation that’s equal parts chaotic and grown. From going through phones and finding out you’re not the only one, to standing firm on financial standards in relationships, Trey explains why he’s quick to say, “You do that again, I’m gone.” But is that emotional maturity… or just control in a cardigan? We also get into:• Open relationships and “roster” culture• Financial responsibility and relationship expectations• Why some women hear “comedian” and think “struggling artist”• Celibacy, discipline, and personal growth• Is it hard...
Published: Feb 26, 2026Duration: 1h 54m 6s
Episode 480
Dating, Boundaries & Emotional Growth with a Man Who Gets It | ft. B-Mac aka Brandon McIntosh
BEDUCATED: Kick off your journey by taking the Quiz! https://beducate.me/pd2608-cocktalesThis week we’re joined by producer and BET host Brian “B-Mac” McIntosh for an honest conversation about modern dating, boundaries, emotional growth, and what healthy relationships actually look like.We talk about how dating changes in your 30s, why moving too fast in relationships can create chaos, and how men and women often misunderstand each other when it comes to vulnerability and emotional needs. The conversation dives into casual dating vs commitment, love languages, communication, and the importance of boundaries in modern...
Published: Feb 20, 2026Duration: 1h 39m 0s
Episode 479
Ep. 479 Who Has Shut Up Money?!
This week on CockTales: Dirty Discussions, we’re asking the real question: Who has shut-up money?!We kick things off with travel nostalgia and vacation dreams before running straight into the hilarious reality of adulthood. We dive into the chaos of planning family vacations, organizing group trips, setting budgets, and why everyone wants a luxury trip until it’s time to pay the deposit.In this episode, we talk about:• The stress of planning trips with friends and family• Budget conversations nobody wants to have• The difference between work travel vs real vacations• Why...
Published: Feb 12, 2026Duration: 56m 33s
Episode 475
EP. 478 The Leading Man: Mike Bless aka Michael Anthony on Healing, Dating, and "The Gift"
February looks a little different this year… because we are letting men take the mic.To kick off our February Men’s Series, we are joined by actor, producer, veteran and content creator Mike Bless aka Michael Anthony. This conversation dives deep into dating, emotional healing, masculinity and the realities of modern relationships from a male perspective.We talk about how men process heartbreak, the role of honesty in dating, why communication looks different for men, and the idea that many men heal quietly instead of publicly. Mike opens up about accountability, emotional vulnerability, dating expectations and the...
Published: Feb 5, 2026Duration: 1h 19m 31s
Episode 477
Relationship ROI, Bottomless Mimosas & Separated Checks
Are you getting a good Relationship ROI, or are you just operating in chaos? This week, Kiki and Medinah discuss the importance of intentionality—from your wellness routine to your brunch dates. We’re diving into why separated checks at a bottomless mimosa brunch might actually be the ultimate green flag for clarity.In This Episode: The ladies discuss the transition from "brunch friends" to "real life" support and why Medinah appreciated a guy friend being 100% upfront about financial boundaries. We also get into the "weird sex" stor...
Published: Jan 29, 2026Duration: 53m 56s
Episode 476
Ep. 476 "What's Your Superpower?" with Kiki Said So & Medinah Monroe
What’s Your Superpower?In this episode of CockTales: Dirty Discussions, Kiki and Medinah tap into reflection, purpose, and grown-woman clarity as they unpack the question: what’s your real superpower? From unexpected “God wink” moments to conversations about confidence, imposter syndrome, and walking into rooms knowing you belong, this episode is about recognizing your value without needing permission.The ladies open up about how their strengths show up in work, relationships, and community — and why sometimes it takes a stranger, a producer, or a quiet moment to remind you that you’re exactly where you’re supposed to...
Published: Jan 22, 2026Duration: 1h 9m 4s
Episode 475
Ep. 475 WHO SAID THAT- PART 2!
SPECIAL OFFER!Beducated is offering our listeners 50% off an annual membership when you click the link iand use code COCKTALES. https://beducate.me/pd2603-cocktalesLast week we kicked off our “Who Said That?” recap, and this week we’re back with Part 2 — more wild clips, iconic one-liners, and a few moments that reminded us why CockTales is funny and deep when it wants to be.This episode is a continuation of last week’s trip down memory lane, pulling standout moments from different years of the show. Some clips had us crying laughing, some had us sid...
Published: Jan 15, 2026Duration: 1h 24m 33s
Episode 474
"WHO SAID THAT" 2025 YEAR IN REVIEW
It’s time to look back… and immediately ask ourselves, “Wait—who said that?!”In Part 1 of this two-part recap episode, Kiki and Medinah revisit some of the wildest, funniest, most unhinged moments from 2025 (with a few older classics sprinkled in), reacting to past clips in real time and reliving everything from comedian guests and dating rants to weird sex stories, hair debates, pop culture takes, and those signature CockTales side quests that somehow always lead back to food.This episode is pure commentary chaos:– Comedians we loved (and clips that still hold up… mostly)– Dating opinions...
Published: Jan 8, 2026Duration: 1h 2m 52s
Episode 473
Ep. 473 When Honesty Gets Uncomfortable with Kiara "Kiki Said So" Walker and Medinah Monroe
In this episode, Kiki and Medinah get into one of the hardest parts of adulthood: how to say uncomfortable things with love, tact, and intention. What starts as a casual conversation quickly turns into a deeper discussion about honesty, boundaries, emotional awareness, and why so many people avoid hard conversations altogether.From awkward truths like bad breath and body odor to deeper emotional feedback that can strain friendships and relationships, the ladies unpack why delivery matters just as much as truth. They talk about when honesty is helpful versus harmful, how personal experiences shape our ability to receive...
Published: Dec 27, 2025Duration: 1h 12m 58s
Episode 472
The Truth About ‘Vibes’ Dating: Why Men Think Basic Questions Are ‘Too Much’
This week, we’re talking about vibes — the good ones, the delusional ones, and the ones men swear should replace actual communication. After mixing up our refreshing pH Balance Cocktail, we dig into Medina’s viral moment about dating communication and the wild comments from men who think asking, “What podcasts do you listen to?” is somehow “too much.”We also get into:• A listener’s essential-oil disaster (peppermint should NOT go everywhere)• Why communication is not “being nosy”• New men in elevators & unexpected meet-cutes• Cat-mama initiation tips from Black women with cats• Atlanta life updates, Friendsg...
Published: Dec 11, 2025Duration: 1h 5m 3s
Episode 471
Ep. 471 Naughty Nog, Naughty Stories & A Very Public Emergency
Try Beducated and use code COCKTALES for 50% off your annual membership https://beducate.me/pd2549-cocktales #BEDUCATED #getbeducatedWe’re shaking up the holiday season with a cocktail that tastes like Christmas, cozy vibes, and just a little bit of sin. This week’s drink is the Naughty Nog Martini, a frothy eggnog latte moment that somehow led us straight into one of the wildest public emergency stories ever told on CockTales.🍸 Naughty Nog (Eggnog Latte Martini) RecipeIngredients:1–2 oz vanilla vodka1 oz eggnog<br...
Published: Dec 4, 2025Duration: 1h 29m 25s
Episode 470
Paper Pregnant, Real Hormones: Lindsay Diann on Baby Joy, Loss & Ride-or-Die Friendships
In this week’s episode, actress, writer, producer and professional on-screen villain Lindsay Diann pulls up for a raw, funny, and deeply honest conversation about being paper pregnant, navigating miscarriage, and stepping into baby joy after loss. She shares what it was really like inducing her missed miscarriage at home, how hormones had her feeling unhinged, and what partners should—and shouldn’t—do when you’re carrying that emotional load alone.We dive into the mental shift from “outside girl” to “intentional woman,” why friendships change when marriages and babies enter the chat, and how to be a better friend wh...
Published: Nov 28, 2025Duration: 1h 12m 26s
Episode 469
Planes, Parties & Premium Oscillation: A Very CockTales Catch-Up
Kiki and Medinah are back with a full life update you did not see coming. From Virgin Voyages cruise chaos (yes, sandstorms and lost cameras!) to pajama parties, new friendships, holiday stress, and family tea — the girls cover it all. Plus, a deep dive into the Celebrator device, gummy-induced zen, TikTok traps, new jobs, weddings, and why learning something new might be your new self-care hack. It’s unhinged, cozy, hilarious, and very CockTales.For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesadsIf you’re 21+, try VIIA...
Published: Nov 24, 2025Duration: 1h 20m 2s
Episode 468
GRIEF, HEDO, & THE ER
We are back in the studio with Cocktales Chardonnay in our glasses and a lot on our hearts.This week Kiki and Medinah catch you up on everything from Hedonism in Jamaica after Hurricane Melissa to one of the wildest Weird Sex stories we have had in a minute. Kiki shares how the resort staff has been impacted, why she is turning her suitcase into a donation bin, and how you can help if you feel called to give. Medinah talks about Paradise & Vibe’s Traveler’s Resort family, the fundraiser in Jamaica and why natural disasters hit different when...
Published: Nov 15, 2025Duration: 1h 15m 10s
Episode 467
467 Confidence, Chaos & Co-Parenting: Lessons in Growth with K. Micole
Try BEDUCATED and use our code COCKTALES69 https://beducate.me/pd2545-cocktalesPour up some champagne and join Kiki Said So and Medinah Monroe for a deep, funny, and heartfelt episode featuring K. Micole—celebrity stylist turned image architect and author.They unpack everything from healing and co-parenting to how your image reflects your inner world. K. Micole gets real about building confidence, balancing motherhood and purpose, and learning to forgive yourself without losing your shine.Follow our guest @kmicoleIf you’re 21+, try VIIA! For 15% off AND a free gift with your...
Published: Nov 11, 2025Duration: 1h 24m 50s
Episode 466
Ep. 466 Tired of Toxic Love? Let’s Talk Breaking the Bare Minimum Cycle ft. Kamilla Davis
Tired of Toxic Love? Let’s Talk Breaking the Bare Minimum CycleWe’re TIRED. Like… “pour me another drink and block his number” tired. This week, Kiki and Medinah are talking all things toxic love — from those “situationships” that drain your energy to the men who swear they’re emotionally available but can’t even text back.Our guest, comedian Kamilla Davis (@kdaviscomedy), joins us for some real and raw girl talk about love, loyalty, and the lies we tell ourselves to stay in bad relationships. We’re laughing through the pain, unpacking manipulation disguised as “effort,” and getting honest about how to finall...
Published: Oct 28, 2025Duration: 1h 18m 25s
Episode 465
Why Are So Many Women Accepting the Bare Minimum?
Kiki Said So and Medinah Monroe are back for part two of their extended catch-up episode — and this time they’re tackling why so many women are accepting the bare minimum in dating, health, and life. From low vitamin D and unaddressed hormone issues to low-effort men and unrealized self-worth, this episode blends comedy, confession, and a few uncomfortable truths. Plus, the “Weird Sex” story of the week will leave you in disbelief (hint: it involves an ER visit and a butt plug).Detailed Show NotesSubtitle: From Low Vitamin D to Low Standards — Time to Raise BothTopics Covered💆🏽‍♀️...
Published: Oct 17, 2025Duration: 41m 45s