CockTales: Dirty Discussions

Kiki Said So and Medinah Monroe are back in the studio catching up on everything from dating guilt to setting boundaries with moms, lovers, and LinkedIn connects. This episode is peak grown woman era — reflective, funny, and real.The ladies talk about embracing the freedom of dating multiple people without shame, learning when to speak up (even to family), and why being “too nice” might just be messing up your love life.You’ll also hear about Medinah’s Meals on Wheels volunteer birthday, her gala honor, and her new Lover Girl Retreat in Thailand — plus Kiki’s new collab, he...

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This week on CockTales Dirty Discussions, Kiki and Medinah sit down with Jenna and Dontay, the married duo behind the Love and Fly Sh*t podcast. They open up about their 11-year marriage, raising kids, trust, sex, and how to keep love fresh when life gets real. From funny wedding memories to navigating parenting without family nearby, this conversation is raw, relatable, and full of wisdom for anyone curious about what makes relationships work long-term.Detailed Show Notes:Marriage, Partnership & Real Love LessonsTopics Covered:How Jenna & Dontay went...

We’re back—fashionably late thanks to last week’s tech gremlins—but the Virgo Vixen energy is intact. Kiki and Medinah kick things off with the Virgo Vixen cocktail, then catch up on names vs. nicknames, a quick shout to Lula’s Legacy of Love (Breast Cancer walk 10/25 in Tampa), and Kiki’s Drinks & Reads book club featuring author Kimberly Brown.Kiki recaps Podcast Movement (anxiety to applause), a heavenly stop at Southern Classic Daiquiri Factory, and why her birthday plan is all about volunteering with Meals on Wheels (53 friends confirmed!). We get into Hedonism plans for December, Ti...

After last week’s marathon two-hour episode, Kiki and Medinah are keeping it light with some good old-fashioned girl talk. The ladies crack open a can of Drippy, share a few laughs, rant about GoPuff, and let the conversation spiral into pure CockTales chaos. If you love the random, unfiltered energy, this one’s for you.🎉 If you’re 21+, try VIIA! For 15% off AND a free gift with your first order head to viia.co/COCKTALES and use code COCKTALES! #viiaparter💉 LifeRx.md - Use code COCKTALES for $50 off LifeRX.MD - Start your health journ...

This week’s cocktail is the Thirst Trap Spritz—a flirty, fruity sip perfect for summer. Kiki and Medinah kick things off with book club chatter about Kimberly Brown’s If You Love Me, a suspenseful love story that sparks a wild “what would you do?” debate about missing spouses and moving on. From there, the ladies dive into a Weird Sex story featuring balcony sex in Mexico (and some Atlanta sightings 👀), before checking in on their health journeys with LifeRX. The conversation takes a thoughtful turn with real talk on funerals, wills, life insurance, and why Black familie...

Kiki and Medinah are back with a no-guest episode full of stories, laughs, and a little real talk. From church crushes and splits that should’ve stayed retired, to wild mall chaos and situationships that feel more like soul ties, nothing is off-limits. The ladies get reflective about health, stress, and why peace is work (not silence), before diving into this week’s advice letter that mixes astrology with a messy situationship. Whether you’re here for the laughs, the life lessons, or just to hear why soda is basically crack, this episode is for you.💻 Join the Drink...

This week on CockTales: Dirty Discussions, things get real flirty when comedian, actor, writer, and self-proclaimed professional heartbreaker Jugo Alexander joins Kiki and Medinah. From the moment he sits down, the chemistry between him and Medinah is undeniable – and we don’t just mean a little eye contact. We’re talking laugh-out-loud banter, slick one-liners, and a few moments that might have you yelling at your headphones, “JUST GO ON A DATE ALREADY!” In this episode, we dive into:Jugo’s unapologetic approach to love, lust, and relationshipsThe fine art of flirting (and when it crosses the line)Why confidence i...

This week we’re talking titles, toxic takes, and whether marriage needs an insurance policy. Kiki and Medinah are back with stories about wild traffic stops, real estate wins, cheating scandals on the kiss cam, and the exhausting emotional labor Black women carry in love and life. We’re asking:→ Why do some men expect leadership with no labor?→ Is marriage insurance the new prenup?→ Do we sound bitter, or are we just done with the BS? Plus, Medina shares a major real estate milestone, Kiki wants to grow corn in her dream backyard, and your favorite THC libido...

This week on CockTales: Dirty Discussions, Kiki and Medinah are keeping it real with no guest and plenty of laughs. The cocktail of the week is “Slippery When Lit,” a whiskey-based drink that sets the mood for updates on Vibe Fest in Sedona, Podcast Movement, and upcoming trips with the Travel Tribe and Worst Behavior Tour. The ladies share outfit dilemmas, beauty tips, and the importance of wellness check-ins with LifeRX, plus new book club updates and future group trip ideas.Things take a turn with the Weird Sex segment, featuring one of the strangest kinks yet: feeding Chee...

This week, we’re joined by sexual health expert, writer, and podcaster @sexwithashley for a raw, hilarious, and honest convo about dating as a sex-positive woman, escaping the grip of purity culture, and what she’s learned about pleasure along the way. From stairwell sex at an AAU tournament to popping cherries at the sex club, Ashley keeps it real about her personal journey with boundaries, ethical non-monogamy, and the myths people still hold about women who talk about sex.We also get into: dating daddies, digmatization recovery, and why some men love the idea of a freak… until...

This week on CockTales: Dirty Discussions, Kiki and Medinah are back with an unfiltered episode packed with laughs, life updates, and a whole lot of delusion. Medinah nearly faints at Beyoncé’s Cowboy Carter tour (spoiler: Bey saw her!), then shares a prison baby story so wild it has us all confused. Plus, she opens up about a surprise date with her old high school crush. Kiki shares what it meant to help Lex buy her first home and finally be taken seriously in her real estate career. We talk vaginal health, bounce-back bodies, dating while healing, and listener advice on...

This week on CockTales, Kiki and Medinah are back in the studio with updates, chaos, and laughs. Kiki shares behind-the-scenes stories about launching XO Man and the emotional moment Skyh Black cried during their interview. The girls talk reality TV obsessions—from Riley on Next Gen NYC to why Love Island might actually be softcore porn. Plus, Medinah opens up about the temptation of a romantic fly-out offer from an ex and her fear of losing the healing and clarity she’s gained. The girls also plan a fantasy podcast girl reality show and get honest about sending spicy pics but...

This week on CockTales: Dirty Discussions, the girls are catching up post-Fourth of July with everything from real estate mommas and mansion parties to gun safety and self-care orgasms. Medinah’s planning a Lover Girls Only trip for the girls who are heartbroken but healing, while Kiki recaps her Houston weekend full of crawfish, concerts, and chaos. From vibrator confessions to gun safety courses, the girls reflect on growth, outside energy, and why healing is horny work.Links Mentioned:💻 Join the Drinks & Reads Book Club on Patreon📺 Kiki's new show: xoMAN Podcast is out now! Check it...

This week we’re joined by the gorgeous and hilarious Kelsey Taylor — nurse practitioner, beauty expert, and injector of all things smooth and snatched. We’re talking cheating (yes, emotional cheating counts), dating disasters, and the wild line between insecurity and self-care. Kelsey spills about a man who went full stalker mode, how she got into the beauty industry, and why you absolutely need a licensed pro before letting anyone touch your face. We’re getting into:The difference between Botox and filler (because no, they’re not the same!)Why maintenance is everything — in beauty and relationshipsVaginal health, weird sex st...

This week’s episode of CockTales: Dirty Discussions is an emotional rollercoaster with equal parts healing and hilarious. Kiki opens up about her new project xoMan Podcast, launching June 17th, and how she landed not just the hosting gig—but a producer credit too. Medinah shares her recent deep dive into celibacy, her new purpose-driven journey, and what it’s like to feel truly lonely again. There’s real talk on forever love, how our grandparents' marriages shaped our ideals, and why modern dating has us asking, “Where did the real men go?” Oh—and of course, there’s a surprise golden...

No guest this week, but we dive into birthday betrayals, petty payback, chaotic wax appointments, and why door-opening debates should never happen at the gym. Plus, we’re picking soft launch over sneaky link and maybe, just maybe, planning a little revenge brunch.🛒 Support the Show and Check Out Offers From Our Sponsors:If you’re 21+, try VIIA! For 15% off AND a free gift with your first order head to viia.co/COCKTALES and use code COCKTALES! #viiaparter Visit soakingwet.com and use code COCKTALES  for 10% o...

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This week on CockTales: Dirty Discussions, we’re grieving, horny, and apparently being touched by trees. Kiki and Medinah catch up on soft launches, Sedona plans, vibrator injuries, and the men sliding into DMs after baptism. Plus, they break down a listener letter involving baby mama drama and what desperation doesn’t look like at 30. 🛒 Sponsors:Get 10% off your order with code COCKTALES here: soakingwet.comLifeRX- Visit LifeRX.md and use code COCKTALES for a special discount on your health journey📲 Follow Us: Instagram: @cocktalespodcast Instagram: @kikisaidso Instagram: @co...

In this heartfelt and hilarious episode, Kiki and Medinah are back in their original studio space catching up on life—both the beautiful and the hard parts. Kiki opens up about the recent passing of her grandfather, sharing intimate, funny, and touching memories that remind us how fleeting life can be. Medinah reflects on her trip to Pittsburgh for Mother's Day and the emotional rollercoaster of spending time with her grandmother, who’s battling dementia. The duo also dives into a trending quote from Marlon Wayans about not marrying because of his mom—and unpack the emotional and generational dynamics around...