E153 - 152: How to Out-Serve Your Spouse (And Why Most Marriages Never Get There)

What would your marriage look like if both of you woke up every morning asking, "How can I out-serve my spouse today?"

In this episode, we get real about what it actually means to seek to out-serve your spouse, the subtle scoreboard most couples keep, why our flesh resists serving without reciprocation, and how the gospel completely reframes what sacrifice is meant to look like in marriage.

In this episode:

Why "I did it last, so you do it now" quietly shifts service into transactionThe language shift that removes the tally from your marriageWhat...