E166 - 165: Why "Follow Your Heart" Is Terrible Marriage Advice

"Follow your heart." "Trust your gut." "Do what feels right." We've all heard it, and if we're honest, we've all let it shape how we treat the people we love most. But what happens on the days your heart doesn't feel like loving your spouse?

In this episode, we dig into why feelings-based decision making is one of the sneakiest threats to a healthy marriage. We unpack where the "follow your heart" mindset actually comes from (hint: it's not the Bible), why feelings are fragile and easily hijacked by stress, sleep, and hormones, and why 1 Corinthians 13 describes...