171 - Why Your Partner Never Hears What You're Trying to Say

E171 - 171 - Why Your Partner Never Hears What You're Trying to Say

Published: February 8, 2026

Duration: 12:30

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Have you ever had an argument that started over something small? The dishes, a tone of voice or being late, and somehow ended with both of you feeling hurt, defensive and completely misunderstood?

In this episode of The Anger Secrets Podcast, anger expert Alastair Duhs explains why most relationship conflict isn’t caused by big problems. It’s caused by small moments where listening breaks down, emotions rise and conversations spiral out of control before either person realises what’s happening.

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