
7 Painful Paradoxes of Self-Improvement (And what they teach us)
Published: September 1, 2026
Duration: 29:26
You know that feeling when you try so hard to seem normal that you become a weirdo? Self-improvement works the exact same way.
The more you chase happiness, the further it runs. The more validation you seek, the emptier you feel. This episode breaks down 7 painful paradoxes when we take on personal growth — psychological traps where trying harder makes things worse.
We dig into King George VI's stutter, Carl Jung's shadow work, and why Steve Jobs getting fired was the best thing that happened to him. You'll learn why over-planning destroys resilience, why self-help books ca...