
E122 - Divorce Expert: Why Smart Women Stay With Narcissists | The Forties Formula
Published: July 29, 2026
Duration: 45:08
What happens when you wake up one day and realise you've lost yourself inside your relationship?
In this deeply honest conversation, Amanda Lim and Jasmin Dhillon sit down with relationship and divorce coach Cheryl Kennedy McDonald to unpack the invisible process of identity loss in long-term relationships. From self-concept erosion and trauma bonds to gaslighting, narcissistic abuse and the emotional reality of divorce, this episode explores why so many women stay, how toxic relationship patterns develop, and what it truly takes to rebuild your sense of self.
Cheryl explains why leaving isn't simply about willpower...