
"I’m a saver, he’s a spender, how do we get on the same page?" Mailbag episode
Published: January 21, 2026
Duration: 17:00
Opposites attract, until it comes to money.
This week’s listener says she’s a saver, her partner is a spender, and every attempt to “get serious” about their finances ends the same way: frustration, guilt, splurging out of spite, and a plan that falls apart by March.
Instead of moving forward, they’re cancelling each other out, and it’s starting to wear them both down.
In this Ask the Experts episode, EnableMe head strategic coach Katie Wesney breaks down why saver–spender dynamics are so common, and why money fights are usually about...