E30 - The Gospel of Control: Why Your Plans Still Feel Fragile

Today, I want to dive into the nitty-gritty of something I call The Gospel of Control: Why Your Plans Still Feel Fragile. It’s that subtle, sneaky belief that convinces us we can plan our way to peace—but instead, it leaves us feeling tight in the chest, anxious, and perpetually on edge. I’ve been there, thinking that if I just had the perfect plan, everything would fall into place. Here’s the truth: planning itself isn’t wrong, yet when it becomes our crutch, it actually steals our peace. We end up juggling expectations, outcomes, and responsibilities like flami...