Dear Shandy

bySharleen Joynt & Andy Levine

SocietyCultureRelationshipsTVFilm

Sharleen Joynt and Andy Levine—aka "Shandy"—combine dating advice and reality show recaps for a fun analysis of modern romance.Sharleen and Andy are two former commitment-phobes who have now been married for over a decade. They don’t believe in fate, soulmates, or The One. So how did they wind up so happily married? They learned the tough dating lessons by living them—and they have the stories to prove it!Have a relationship quandary or Am-I-The-Asshole question? Get no-holds-barred, non-judgmental advice in their fan-favorite Q&A episodes and Caller sessions.As an iconic former Bachelor contestant, Sharleen brings h...

Episodes(40 episodes)

The Traitors New Blood: Episode 7 Recap & Review - Ep 503

Dear Shandy's world-famous recaps are back, this time covering #TheTraitors New Blood on #Peacock! Today Shandy breaks down episode 7.Thanks to our sponsors...- Go to https://quince.com/shandy for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns!Time stamps...0:00 - Housekeeping1:22 - Episode 737:54 - Shandy’s Predictions If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com<...

Published: Oct 23, 2026Duration: 41m 37s

Love Is Blind S11: Episodes 6-8 Recap & Review - Ep 502

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! They never miss a Love Is Blind season, and today they're excited to unpack BOSTON with you! Today Shandy is breaking down Batch 2, aka Episodes 6-8.Thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://AquaTru.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off your purifier!- Go to https://squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!- Go to https://trykepos.com/SHANDY to receive 47% off your first order PLUS free gifts...

Published: Oct 21, 2026Duration: 1h 30m 23s

Love Is Blind Netherlands: REUNION Recap & Review - Ep 501

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! You asked for Love Is Blind Netherlands, and now you shall receive! Today Shandy is breaking down the REUNION, aka Episode 10.Thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for up to 20% off on home and sleepwear!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping2:24 - Reunion1:03:20 - Best Dressed1:04:07 - Who We Would Go For<...

Published: Oct 19, 2026Duration: 1h 11m 33s

The Traitors New Blood: Episode 6 Recap & Review - Ep 500

Dear Shandy's world-famous recaps are back, this time covering #TheTraitors New Blood on #Peacock! Today Shandy breaks down episode 6.Time stamps...0:00 - Housekeeping3:37 - Episode 635:14 - Shandy’s PredictionsIf you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.comSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Jo...

Published: Oct 17, 2026Duration: 41m 14s

Love Is Blind Netherlands: FINALE Recap & Review - Ep 499

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! You asked for Love Is Blind Netherlands, and now you shall receive! Today Shandy is breaking down the grand FINALE, aka Episode 9.Thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://quince.com/shandy for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns!Referenced Reddit thread:https://www.reddit.com/r/LoveIsBlindOnNetflix/comments/1wyewzw/mika_posts_her_perspective_on_jurriaans_comments/Time Stamps:<...

Published: Oct 15, 2026Duration: 42m 53s

Love Is Blind S11: Episodes 1-5 Recap & Review - Ep 498

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! They never miss a Love Is Blind season, and today they're excited to unpack BOSTON with you! Today Shandy is breaking down Batch 1, aka Episodes 1-5.Thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://saltandstone.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order!- Go to https://fabletics.com/SHANDY for 70-80% off everything as a new VIP!- Go to https://www.warbyparker.com/SHANDY to buy 1 pair of glasses and get 20% off any...

Published: Oct 14, 2026Duration: 1h 49m 24s

The Traitors New Blood: Episode 5 Recap & Review - Ep 497

Dear Shandy's world-famous recaps are back, this time covering #TheTraitors New Blood on #Peacock! Today Shandy breaks down episode 5.Thanks to our sponsors...- Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for up to 20% off on home and sleepwear!- Go to https://laundrysauce.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off!Time stamps...0:00 - Housekeeping0:56 - Episode 527:23 - Shandy’s PredictionsIf you have a...

Published: Oct 9, 2026Duration: 30m 57s

Love Is Blind Netherlands: Episodes 6-8 Recap & Review - Ep 496

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! You asked for Love Is Blind Netherlands, and now you shall receive! Today Shandy is breaking down Batch 2, aka Episodes 6-8.Thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://AirDoctorPro.com and use code SHANDY for up to $300 off ANY AirDoctor plus a free 3-year warranty!- Go to https://tumbleliving.com/SHANDY for 10% off plus free shipping!- Download the Poshmark app and use code SHANDY when you sign up to get $10 off your first purchase!<...

Published: Oct 8, 2026Duration: 1h 27m 44s

Love Is Blind Netherlands: Episodes 1-5 Recap & Review - Ep 495

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! You asked for Love Is Blind Netherlands, and now you shall receive! Today Shandy is breaking down Batch 1, aka Episodes 1-5.Thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://oliveandjune.com/SHANDY for 20% off your first system!- Go to https://squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!- Go to https://oakessentials.com and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order!Time...

Published: Oct 5, 2026Duration: 1h 22m 50s

Dear Shandy Turns 6! Anniversary Q&A Answering YOUR Questions! - Ep 494

It's that time of year again... Dear Shandy is officially 6 years old, and what better way to celebrate than to answer YOUR questions! We polled you over on Instagram and received Qs about us, our relationship, the podcast, Ruby, and everything in between! Thank you, Shandies, for 6 WHOLE YEARS of laughs, kinship and community. We absolutely adore you! Come join us in our living room to chat!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://revolve.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order!...

Published: Oct 1, 2026Duration: 1h 7m 9s

The Traitors New Blood: Episodes 3-4 Recap & Review - Ep 493

Dear Shandy's world-famous recaps are back, this time covering #TheTraitors New Blood on #Peacock! Today Shandy breaks down episodes 3 & 4.Thanks to our sponsors...- Go to https://quince.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns!- Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for up to 20% off on home and sleepwear!- Go to https://trykepos.com/SHANDY to receive 47% off your first order PLUS free gifts valued at $62!Time stamps...<...

Published: Sep 25, 2026Duration: 1h 2m 11s

Q&A! Backing Out As Maid Of Honor & Is It OK To Flirt While Married? - Ep 492

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions!You're dating a guy but can't tell if the pit in your stomach is dread or butterflies... is it your anxiety or the infamous Ick? You regret agreeing to being your childhood friend's Maid Of Honor. Is it ever OK to back out of the role? You're a devoted daughter but your dreams extend beyond your duty. Between the crushing guilt and the desire to break free, which one wins? You're a mom of two young men and worry about their dating prospects—Shandy we...

Published: Sep 24, 2026Duration: 1h 24m 34s

The Traitors New Blood: Episodes 1-2 Recap & Review - Ep 491

Dear Shandy's world-famous recaps are back, this time covering #TheTraitors New Blood on #Peacock! Today Shandy breaks down episodes 1 & 2.Thanks to our sponsors...- Go to https://revolve.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order!- Go to https://AquaTru.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off your purifier!- Go to https://warbyparker.com/SHANDY to buy 1 pair of glasses and get 20% off any additional pairs!- Go to https://oliveandjune.com/SHANDY for 20% off your first system!<...

Published: Sep 19, 2026Duration: 43m 20s

Caller 📞 Sessions! "I Dated Him For 6 Months... But We Never Met" - Ep 490

It's CALLER DAY! 📞 Today we're joined by lovely caller Dani who has been dating a guy for 6 months. Except... she's never actually met him?? Was he never interested enough to progress things further, or was she too guarded? Listen on for the Shandy take!Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email dearshandy@gmail.com for information about Shandy's new Off The Record sessions!Thanks to our sponsors....- Go to https://www.functionhealth.com/SHANDY and use...

Published: Sep 17, 2026Duration: 54m 58s

Q&A! Confessing To Cheating A Decade Later & Crushing On Your BFF's Boyfriend - Ep 489

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions!You're happily married with kids but you carry a secret from a decade ago, before starting a family. Is it worth rocking the boat to tell the truth all these years later? If you like your coworker but hate how she ALWAYS cuts you off, what's the best way to fix her social faux-pas? Your mother-in-law keeps cornering you to trauma dump—how do you draw the line between devoted daughter-in-law and de facto therapist? And what to do when you can't stop crushing on...

Published: Sep 10, 2026Duration: 1h 20m 17s

Love Is Blind UK S3: REUNION Recap & Review - Ep 488

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! You asked for Love Is Blind UK, and now you shall receive! Today Shandy is breaking down the Reunion, aka Episode 11.Thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://saltandstone.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order!- Go to https://tumbleliving.com/SHANDY for 10% off plus free shipping!- Go to https://skims.com/SHANDY to shop Sharleen’s favorite Bras and Underwear!- Go to https://revolve.com/SHANDY and use...

Published: Sep 1, 2026Duration: 48m 16s

Love Is Blind UK S3: FINALE - Episodes 9 & 10 Recap & Review - Ep 487

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! You asked for Love Is Blind UK, and now you shall receive! Today Shandy is breaking down the grand Finale, aka Episodes 9 & 10.Thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://fabletics.com/SHANDY for 70-80% off everything as a new VIP!- Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for an exclusive 20% off!Time stamps...0:00 - Housekeeping2:20 - Episode 929:53 - Episode 1058:00 - S...

Published: Aug 26, 2026Duration: 1h 6m 25s

Love Is Blind UK S3: Episodes 5-8 Recap & Review - Ep 486

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! You asked for Love Is Blind UK, and now you shall receive! Today Shandy is breaking down the first half of Batch 1, aka Episodes 5-8.Thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://shopremi.com/SHANDY and use CODE SHANDY to get 55% off your new night guard from now until the end of August with Remi Club Subscribe & Save!- Go to https://revolve.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order!- Go...

Published: Aug 24, 2026Duration: 1h 45m 35s

Love Is Blind UK S3: Episodes 1-4 Recap & Review - Ep 485

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! You asked for Love Is Blind UK, and now you shall receive! Today Shandy is breaking down the first half of Batch 1, aka Episodes 1-4.Thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://functionhealth.com/SHANDY and use gift code SHANDY25 for a $25 credit towards your membership!- Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for an exclusive 20% off!- Go to https://squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or d...

Published: Aug 19, 2026Duration: 1h 15m 47s

Q&A! Your Argumentative Boyfriend & Wedding Guests Who Don't Give Gifts - Ep 484

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! You're excited to move in with your boyfriend, however, the geographical and financial benefits are impossible to ignore—is your judgment being clouded by the perks? You're a Gandy and your girlfriend looks young... TOO young. Is your self-consciousness warranted? Your wedding guest came but didn't send a gift—is it acceptable to ask about the gift, and if not, do you still need to write a Thank You card? Your social life has taken a hard hit by your post-COVID anxiety—what is Shandy...

Published: Aug 13, 2026Duration: 1h 9m 21s