Dear Shandy

bySharleen Joynt & Andy Levine

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Sharleen Joynt and Andy Levine—aka "Shandy"—combine dating advice and reality show recaps for a fun analysis of modern romance.Sharleen and Andy are two former commitment-phobes who have now been married for over a decade. They don’t believe in fate, soulmates, or The One. So how did they wind up so happily married? They learned the tough dating lessons by living them—and they have the stories to prove it!Have a relationship quandary or Am-I-The-Asshole question? Get no-holds-barred, non-judgmental advice in their fan-favorite Q&A episodes and Caller sessions.As an iconic former Bachelor contestant, Sharleen brings h...

Episodes(40 episodes)

LOVE FEST! The Ultimatum's Luke Wesselhoff & Monica Payne Talk Growth & Goofiness - Ep 483

It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Shandy is excited to be joined in-studio by Monica Payne and Luke Wesselhoff from Season 4 of Netflix's The Ultimatum!Today Luke and Monica give us a peek behind The Ultimatum curtain: what didn't we see on the show, and just how accurate (or inaccurate) was their edit? We talk growth on and off the show, navigating the public's assumptions, their high school personas, their first kiss, and of course, how they fight! Finally, a Newlyweds Game that proves these two go waaaay back! Who knows who better? Watch on to fin...

Published: Aug 6, 2026Duration: 1h 22m 56s

Q&A! Childfree Judgment & "I Love My Guy But Hate His Diet" - Ep 482

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If your friend regularly makes passive aggressive digs about your childfree-by-choice lifestyle, is a confrontation in order? How can you navigate your in-laws' past financial issues becoming YOUR future problem? If he ends it because of his father's diagnosis, is that a sign you should wait, or is the illness a red herring? And what to do if you love your guy but hate his vegetarianism? Come join us in our living room for good conversation and the Shandy take!Interested in getting the...

Published: Jul 30, 2026Duration: 1h 20m 41s

The Ultimatum's Blake Robertson Speaks Out - Ep 481

Content note: This episode contains discussion of alleged domestic violence and may be difficult for some listeners. If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic violence, help is available through the National Domestic Violence Hotline by calling 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) or texting START to 88788. Please listen with care and skip this episode if needed.This week, we're joined by Blake Robertson, whom many viewers know from The Ultimatum. Since his time on the show, Blake has also been the subject of public allegations of domestic violence—a topic that understandably evokes str...

Published: Jul 24, 2026Duration: 1h 34m 11s

The Ultimatum S4: Finale & Reunion Recap & Review - Ep 480

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! The Ultimatum happens to be one of Shandy's all-time favorite shows, and today they're breaking down the Finale and Reunion for Season 4!*** This episode discusses domestic assault. Please listen with care. ***Thanks to our lovely sponsors...- Go to https://quince.com/shandy for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns!- Go to https://ollie.com/shandy and use code SHANDY to get 70% off your Welcome Kit today!<...

Published: Jul 23, 2026Duration: 1h 2m 21s

The Ultimatum S4: Episodes 5-8 Recap & Review - Ep 479

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! The Ultimatum happens to be one of Shandy's all-time favorite shows, and today they're breaking down episodes 5-8 of Season 4!*** Note: This episode was recorded before news dropped about one contestant getting arrested for assault **Thanks to our wonderful sponsors...- Download the Poshmark app and use code SHANDY when you sign up to get $10 off your first purchase!- Go to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY50OFF and use code SHANDY50OFF for 50% off...

Published: Jul 20, 2026Duration: 1h 39m 47s

The Ultimatum S4: Episodes 1-4 Recap & Review - Ep 478

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! The Ultimatum happens to be one of Shandy's all-time favorite shows, and today they're breaking down episodes 1-4 of Season 4! Stay tuned for your recap of episodes 5-8 dropping later.Thanks to our wonderful sponsors...- Go to https://revolve.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order!- Go to https://fabletics.com/SHANDY for 70-80% off everything as a new VIP!- Go to https://perelelhealth.com and use code SHANDY to get 20% off y...

Published: Jul 16, 2026Duration: 1h 39m 14s

Love Island S8: Week 6 & FINALE Recap & Review - Ep 477

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! You asked for Love Island, and now you shall receive! Today Shandy is breaking down Week 6 & the FINALE of Season 8.Thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://www.warbyparker.com/SHANDY to buy 1 pair of glasses and get 20% off any additional pairs!- Download the Poshmark app and use code SHANDY when you sign up to get $10 off your first purchase!- Go to https://www.ollie.com/shandy and use code SHANDY to get 70% off...

Published: Jul 14, 2026Duration: 1h 13m 19s

Love Island S8: Week 5 Recap & Review - Ep 476

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! You asked for Love Island, and now you shall receive! Today Shandy is breaking down Week 5 of Season 8.Thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://www.skims.com/shandy to shop Sharleen's favorite Bras and Underwear!- Go to https://zazzle.com to get 25% off your first order!- Go to https://laundrysauce.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off!- Go to https://www.squarespace.com and use code SHANDY for 10% off your f...

Published: Jul 9, 2026Duration: 1h 33m 48s

Caller 📞 Sessions! "I Let Myself Get Excited & He Promptly Dumped Me—What Happened & WHERE IS HE?!" - Ep 475

It's CALLER DAY! 📞 Today we're joined by TWO lovely callers! Our first caller, Emily, has just been dumped by the first guy in ages she's thought could be The One. After years of dating and actively putting herself out there, she's downright defeated. What happened? And more importantly, WHERE IS HE?! Our second caller, Ryan, has an unpopular choice for her bridal party. Should she overcome her family's judgment, or is it simply better to keep the peace? Listen on for the Shandy take!Interested in getting the Shandy take but don...

Published: Jul 3, 2026Duration: 1h 4m 9s

Love Island S8: Week 4 Recap & Review - Ep 474

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! You asked for Love Island, and now you shall receive! Today Shandy is breaking down Week 4 of Season 8.Thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://tumbleliving.com/SHANDY for 10% off plus free shipping!- Go to https://ogee.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY to get 20% off!- Go to https://www.functionhealth.com/SHANDY and use gift code SHANDY25 for a $25 credit towards your membership!- Go to https://www.warbyparker.com/SHANDY...

Published: Jul 2, 2026Duration: 1h 26m 29s

Love Island S8: Week 3 Recap & Review - Ep 473

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! You asked for Love Island, and now you shall receive! Today Shandy is breaking down Week 3 of Season 8.Thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://rula.com/SHANDY and take the first step towards improved mental health!- Go to https://curehydration.com and use code DEARSHANDY for 20% off!- Go to https://oneskin.co and use code SHANDY to get 15% off!- Go to https://saltandstone.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15...

Published: Jun 25, 2026Duration: 1h 28m 20s

Q&A! "If He Wanted To, He Would": Timeless Or Outdated? - Ep 472

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Several friends never respond to your texts—Is this the new social norm, or are you doing something wrong? If you put your foot in your mouth on an early date, is there any recovering? The guy you like *seems* interested but never makes a move—does Shandy still stand by the old adage "If He Wanted To, He Would"? And if you love your fiancé but his flatulence is a damper on the romance, what to do?? Come join us in our living room for good conversation and the S...

Published: Jun 19, 2026Duration: 1h 3m 8s

Love Island S8: Week 2 Recap & Review - Ep 471

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! You asked for Love Island, and now you shall receive! Today Shandy is breaking down Week 2 of Season 8.Thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://functionhealth.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY25 for a $25 credit towards your membership!- Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off!- Go to https://poshmark.com/SHANDY to get $10 off your first purchase!- Go to https://laundrysauce.com and use code SHANDY for 20...

Published: Jun 18, 2026Duration: 1h 38m 38s

Love Island S8: Week 1 Recap & Review - Ep 470

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! You asked for Love Island, and now you shall receive! Today Shandy is breaking down Week 1 of Season 8.Thank you to our sponsors...- Text SHANDY to 64000 for your 2 free gifts with the purchase of any Pocket Hose Ballistic hose!- Go to https://zazzle.com for 25% off your first order!- Go to https://ollie.com/shandy and use code shandy for 70% off your Welcome Kit!- Go to https://perelelhealth.com/SHANDY and use...

Published: Jun 11, 2026Duration: 1h 37m 13s

Q&A! Dating For The $$$ Lifestyle & His Secret Deepfake Stash - Ep 469

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If you loathe your brother's girlfriend's "Influencer" Instagram, are you just being judgy or should you warn him of red flags? If your friend's financial situation has gotten difficult, is it wise to loan her money? If you found your husband's top secret stash, starring a surprising main character, what should you do? And if your boyfriend is loyal and loving but you have a secret fantasy, is it worth it to risk it all for the Unknown? Come join us in our living room for good conversation and...

Published: Jun 5, 2026Duration: 1h 13m 44s

Confessions With 'Perfect Match''s Dave Hand - Ep 468

Today Shandy is delighted to welcome the (co-)WINNER of Netflix's Perfect Match Season 4, the one and only Dave Hand! We watched Dave leave the show hand-in-hand with Sophie... so what *really* happened? Today Dave explains the truth behind the breakup, who from the cast is the most misunderstood, and how his life has changed in the aftermath of TWO reality shows. Most importantly, Shandy learns the thought process that goes into getting a neck tattoo! We enjoyed this conversation and think you will, too! #netflix #perfectmatchThanks to our sponsors!<...

Published: Jun 4, 2026Duration: 41m 22s

Perfect Match S4: FINALE Recap & Review - Ep 467

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Shandy couldn't resist the siren song of Perfect Match Season 4, and today they're breaking down the grand FINALE!Thanks to our sponsors...- Go to https://poshmark.com/shandy to get $10 off your first purchase!- Text SHANDY to 64000 for your 2 free gifts with the purchase of any Pocket Hose Ballistic hose!- Go to https://goodwipes.com/SHANDY to snag a free pack of goodwipes at Walmart!- Go to https://mudwtr.com and use...

Published: May 27, 2026Duration: 54m 46s

Q&A! Demystifying The Moody Husband & Is Timing *Really* Everything? - Ep 466

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If you and your longtime platonic friend have been secretly crushing on each other, is it now or never to make a move, even if he's started dating someone new? (Speak now or forever hold your peace?) If your friend has volunteered YOU to help her move, can you worm your way out of it, or is it best to roll up your sleeves and help? And what can be done if your partner of 16 years has become a moody grump? Can people actually change, or must you grin...

Published: May 21, 2026Duration: 1h 8m 20s

Perfect Match S4: Episodes 6-7 Recap & Review - Ep 465

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Shandy couldn't resist the siren song of Perfect Match Season 4, so today they're breaking down the first batch, aka episodes 6-7! Thanks to our wonderful sponsors...- Text SHANDY to 64000 for your 2 free gifts with the purchase of any Pocket Hose Ballistic hose!- Go to https://saltandstone.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order!- Go to https://ogee.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY to get 20% off!- Go to h...

Published: May 20, 2026Duration: 1h 16m 31s

Perfect Match S4: Episodes 1-5 Recap & Review - Ep 464

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Shandy couldn't resist the siren song of Perfect Match Season 4, so today they're breaking down the first batch, aka episodes 1-5! Thanks to our wonderful sponsors...- Go to https://saltandstone.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order!- Go to https://functionhealth.com/SHANDY and use gift code SHANDY25 for a $25 credit towards your membership!- Go to https://perelelhealth.com and use code SHANDY to get 20% off your first order!...

Published: May 14, 2026Duration: 1h 22m 27s