8. When Polyamory Became Self-Betrayal

In this episode, Monet Noctaris explores disillusionment through the lens of polyamory, ethical non-monogamy, bisexuality, coercion, and the quiet ways we can use “expanded” frameworks to betray our own knowing.

This is not an episode about why polyamory is bad. It is an episode about what happens when a relationship structure becomes a place where boundaries are crossed, needs are distorted into demands, and self-abandonment gets spiritualized as growth.

Monet shares the story of coming out to herself more fully, opening her marriage, realizing she had been overriding her own body’s wisdom, and later repeat...