AITApod (Am I The A**hole Podcast)

AITApod (Am I The A**hole Podcast)

byDanny Vega

ComedyEducationSelf-ImprovementSocietyCultureRelationships

Danny Vega and friends read listener submissions, & pilfers from the AITA subreddit to discuss modern questions of morality, relationships, and juice (gossip). Why? To answer one simple question: am I the a**hole? Submit at reddit.com/r/aitapod

Episodes(40 episodes)

790 AITA for asking my husband if he's a sexist? (ft. The Divorce Mediator)

790 AITA for asking my husband if he's a sexist? (ft. The Divorce Mediator)

The sponsor today is Betterhelp.com/aitapod - Get 10% off today!FOLKS, I am super excited for this one. I am joined by a real life, heightened interpersonal conflict WARLOCK. His name: Joe Dillon. He is the mediator for his divorce mediation company (Equitable Mediation.com) that helps folks stay out of the courts and work things out more affordably (and affably too). I was transfixed with bro's insights ngl :D. This guy deescalates!! Hope you enjoy.Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/equitablemediation/  - @equitablemediation(0:00) - Banter(6:10) - Interview questionsSITUATIONS</b...
Published: Feb 2, 2026Duration: 2:00:36
787xt AITA for bringing my own bed gear to girls' houses? (ft. Sara)

787xt AITA for bringing my own bed gear to girls' houses? (ft. Sara)

folks im joined by Sara for a banger ep-a-roo. A little something EXTRA for you this week :) (0:00) - Banter(10:30) - AITA for taking the arm rest that was rightfully mine? (Danny story)(15:41) - AITA for freezing chicken?(26:35) - AITA for offering my GF a gift not to get tattoos? (43:25) - My 30 F best friend 27 F asked me to stop stealing her identity.(54:18) - AITA for bringing my own bed gear? BEST way to Submit a sitch or comment: https://www.reddit.com/r/AITApod/Email - amitheahole@gma...
Published: Jan 28, 2026Duration: 1:09:08
788 AITA for kicking my mother out of my house over games? (ft. Radu & Karla)

788 AITA for kicking my mother out of my house over games? (ft. Radu & Karla)

Happy mon mon hun huns. Hope you enjoy this ep :)(0:00) - Banter(8:01) - AITA for refusing to keep my phone on silent at all times?(18:00) - AITA for not giving my vacation day to a coworker getting married?(28:10) - AITA for kicking my mother out of my house over games?(39:21) - AITA for not driving back after they messed up my wife's order?BEST way to Submit a sitch or comment: https://www.reddit.com/r/AITApod/Email - amitheahole@gmail.com Join Patreon! https://patreon.com/aitapodWhat's o...
Published: Jan 26, 2026Duration: 50:03
786 AITA boyfriend kicked me out of the shower to poop? (ft. Karla, Radu & Lily)

786 AITA boyfriend kicked me out of the shower to poop? (ft. Karla, Radu & Lily)

The sponsor today is better help! Betterhelp.com/aitapod for 10% off therapyFOLKS, it's an amazing ep with a whole gang of mfs. Enjoy and have an amazing week :) (0:00) - banter(9:18) - AITA boyfriend kicked me out of shower to poop?(22:13) - AITA cat on me during a flight?(34:17) - AITA for speaking up at a buffet? (43:44) - AITA for not wanting to watch Netflix with subtitles?BEST way to Submit a sitch or comment: https://www.reddit.com/r/AITApod/Email - amitheahole@gmail.com Join Pat...
Published: Jan 19, 2026Duration: 55:50
784 AITA for judging another country I visited? (ft. Sara)

784 AITA for judging another country I visited? (ft. Sara)

Our sponsor: Betterhelp.com/aitapod for 10% off therapyFOLKS. This is a fun little ep with Sara and I hope you enjoy it :).(0:00) - Banter / Sara gets attacked by Dentist Threads(13:29) - AITA for suggesting my daughter skip a Hanukkah gift this year?(23:08) - SUBMISH: AITA for being rude and judgmental about another country I visited?(32:12) - How do I 35f tell 50m I no longer want to be friends after he frightened me?(42:28) - AITA for not wanting to watch Netflix with subtitles?BEST way to Submit a sitch or...
Published: Jan 12, 2026Duration: 48:35
782 AITA for refusing to contribute to a co-worker's farewell gift? (ft. Mollie)

782 AITA for refusing to contribute to a co-worker's farewell gift? (ft. Mollie)

THE SPONSOR TODAY: Betterhelp.com/aitapod 10% off online therapy :) AITA lawyer, Trent Turk, https://ballewlaw.com/trent-turk/--I'm joined by Mollie for an EPIC episode. Hope ya enjoy and happy 2026(0:00) - Banter(7:49) - Mollie asks AITA for saying 'sorry your cat died'?(28:25) - AITA for telling my friend to deal w the consequences of disobeying girl code?(41:25) - AITA for frying my friend's laptop after she snooped?(55:14) - AITA for refusing to contribute to a co-worker's farewell gift?BEST way to Submit a sitch or comment: https://www.r...
Published: Jan 5, 2026Duration: 1:11:32
780xt AITA for calling my boyfriend pathetic? (ft. Mia Katz)

780xt AITA for calling my boyfriend pathetic? (ft. Mia Katz)

I'm joined by MIA, an awesome listener and even better co-host!!! We love. Happy New Year :) (0:00) - Banter(10:18) - AITA for letting a kid go home with his actual parent?(25:02) - AITA for not paying for stepson's surgery bc of what he did? (37:44) -  AITA for calling my boyfriend pathetic?BEST way to Submit a sitch or comment: https://www.reddit.com/r/AITApod/Email - amitheahole@gmail.com Join Patreon! https://patreon.com/aitapodWhat's on Patreon?- 250+ Bonus eps- NO ADS and accurate time...
Published: Dec 31, 2025Duration: 51:21
777b AITA for returning a Costco table after 7 years? (my dog ate it)? (ft. Brashton)

777b AITA for returning a Costco table after 7 years? (my dog ate it)? (ft. Brashton)

I'm joined by long time friends and married gems, Ashton and Brandon Weinberger (their dogs, Crispy and Potato were also with us) for an amazing ep. And all I can really ask is that you PLEASE don't return it :D(0:00) - Banter/AITA for returning everything to Costco?(11:12) - AITA for giving my kids unequal wedding gifts and honestly one gift sucked?(25:34) - AITA for refusing a child-free couple on a family tour group?(37:53) - AITA if I return my IKEA furniture bc I don't want it anymore?BEST way to Submit...
Published: Dec 29, 2025Duration: 51:41
778 AITA for calling wife difficult about seating at a restaurant?(ft. Mollie)

778 AITA for calling wife difficult about seating at a restaurant?(ft. Mollie)

Folks, I am joined by Mollie and you know, I like this episode A LOT. Merry Christmas, Happy Holidays, and big joy to all ye who enter here. Much love!(0:00) - Banter(19:32) - AITA for telling my wife she was being difficult due to a seating issue at a restaurant?(35:03) - AITA for never eating lunch with my colleagues?(46:44) - AITA for wanting friend's mom to pay for our uber?BEST way to Submit a sitch or comment: https://www.reddit.com/r/AITApod/Email - amitheahole@gmail.com Join P...
Published: Dec 22, 2025Duration: 54:14
776 AITA for continuing a religious debate with a co-worker? (ft. Mollie)

776 AITA for continuing a religious debate with a co-worker? (ft. Mollie)

We are almost to the holidays! Hope y'all have a great week. Much love :) Thanks for listening(0:00) - Banter (10:02) - I finally tried therapy with my wife and holy $hift why didn't I do this sooner?(21:16) - Banter Part 2(28:09) - AITA for continuing a religious debate with a co-worker?(41:17) - AITA for refusing to do my husband a favor even if I was capable of doing it? (51:03) - AITA for ruining Secret Santa?BEST way to Submit a sitch or comment: https://www.reddit.com/r/AITApod/Email - am...
Published: Dec 15, 2025Duration: 1:00:09
774 AITA for expecting husband to make me a mimosa? (ft. Sara Levine)

774 AITA for expecting husband to make me a mimosa? (ft. Sara Levine)

I'm joined by Sara Levine to discuss some juice situaroos. Happy Holidays you guys :) (0:00) Banter(10:10) - AITA for charging my electric unicycle in a Starbucks?(16:31) - AITA for suing someone for $2m for cheating with my husband? (23:23) - AITA for writing as a woman, as a man? (35:50) - AITA for telling my son he caused his own break-up?(48:27) - AITA for expecting husband to make me a mimosa? BEST way to Submit a sitch or comment: https://www.reddit.com/r/AITApod/Email - amitheahole@gmail.com Join Patre...
Published: Dec 8, 2025Duration: 58:02
772 AITA for expecting ex to move out even though she has nowhere to go? (ft. Mia Katz)

772 AITA for expecting ex to move out even though she has nowhere to go? (ft. Mia Katz)

The sponsor today is Betterhelp. 10% off at betterhelp.com/aitapodHAPPY MON MON HUN HUNS! I'm joined by dear listener and friend, MIA!! Happy holidays to you and yours xoxo(0:00) - Banter(3:00) - Guess The Verdict(15:15) - AITA for saying clean my car and taking the keys?(25:00) - AITA for expecting ex-gf to move out even though she has nowhere to go?(39:11) - Husband is an addictBEST way to Submit a sitch or comment: https://www.reddit.com/r/AITApod/Email - amitheahole@gmail.com Join Pa...
Published: Dec 1, 2025Duration: 1:07:18
770 AITA for calling my brother a prude bc of a movie? (ft. Radu y Karlita)

770 AITA for calling my brother a prude bc of a movie? (ft. Radu y Karlita)

HAPPY HOLIDAYS AND THANKS FOR LISTENING!!!!(0:00) - banter(16:05) - WIBTA if I ask my friend to call it on hanging with our problematic friend?(34:31) - AITA for refusing to accompany a friend to pick up pizza but then going with another friend?(44:16) - AITA for calling my brother a prude bc of a movie?BEST way to Submit a sitch or comment: https://www.reddit.com/r/AITApod/Email - amitheahole@gmail.com Join Patreon! https://patreon.com/aitapodWhat's on Patreon?- 250+ Bonus eps- NO A...
Published: Nov 24, 2025Duration: 57:27
769 AITA for keeping my cat even though my roommate is allergic? (ft. Dakota & Mollie)

769 AITA for keeping my cat even though my roommate is allergic? (ft. Dakota & Mollie)

Betterhelp is the sponsor today. 10% off at Betterhelp.com/aitapodIt's a big ol' cancel trap for me but here we go. Enjoy the ep. Thanks for listening!!!(0:00) - Banter(10:32) - AITA for keeping my cat even though my roommate is allergic?(29:19) - AITA for wanting only the roommate to have keys to the house?(47:05) - AITA for moving first into a new line?(1:00:18) - AITA for eating a whole donut that was brought into work?BEST way to Submit a sitch or comment: https://www.reddit.com/r/AITApod/<...
Published: Nov 17, 2025Duration: 1:09:14
767 AITA for cancelling my wedding bc a strip club HJ? (ft. Sara)

767 AITA for cancelling my wedding bc a strip club HJ? (ft. Sara)

HAPPY MON MON HUN HUNS!!!! ENJOY the ep :) Free 1 month patreon yaaaa frfr. https://www.patreon.com/aitapod/redeem/1807C(00:00) Banter(06:07) AITA for cancelling my wed over a strip club HJ?(19:41) AITA for reporting a co-worker for sending me a message?(27:00) AITA for ending it just bc he doesn't "adult"?(39:12) AITA for bringing a baby to business class?BEST way to Submit a sitch or comment: https://www.reddit.com/r/AITApod/Email - amitheahole@gmail.com Join Patreon! https://patreon.com/aitapodWhat's on Pat...
Published: Nov 10, 2025Duration: 54:50
765xt AITA for confronting my coworker after doing a favor? (ft. Keith Malley)

765xt AITA for confronting my coworker after doing a favor? (ft. Keith Malley)

FOLKS, I am joined by the wonderful Keith Malley, a person who I have had zero issues with in the past. We've had a perfect friendship :) Enjoy(00:00) Introduction and Banter(12:14) -  AITA for lying to get seats at a show(21:50) - AITA for confronting my coworker after doing a favor?(38:13) - AITA for walking out of a date?BEST way to Submit a sitch or comment: https://www.reddit.com/r/AITApod/Email - amitheahole@gmail.com Join Patreon! https://patreon.com/aitapodWhat's on Patreon?- 250+ Bo...
Published: Nov 6, 2025Duration: 50:12
764 AITA for telling my GF to dress more sensibly on a hike? (ft. Mia Katz)

764 AITA for telling my GF to dress more sensibly on a hike? (ft. Mia Katz)

Today's sponsor: betterhelp.com/aitapod 10% off online therapy!Happy mon mon hun huns!!! Enjoy this ep with the delightful Mia Katz. Follow her and her DREAMS here :Dhttps://www.instagram.com/thebluecarebear/(00:00) - Banter(15:06) - AITA for shutting down my brother's proposal at my baby shower and sending him a bill?(25:05) - AITA for telling my friend her free wedding is unrealistic?(41:16) - AITA for asking my GF to dress more sensibly on a walk?BEST way to Submit a sitch or comment: https://www.reddit.com/r/A...
Published: Nov 3, 2025Duration: 51:20
761 AITA for asking husband to cancel our Everest anniversary trip? (ft Aaron Small)

761 AITA for asking husband to cancel our Everest anniversary trip? (ft Aaron Small)

Happy hump day! Here's a little extra ep for ya with my new friend, Aaron Small! Enjoy :).Presented ad-free, like every ep on Patreon! Please join :) patreon.com/aitapod(0:00) - Banter(8:38) - Aaron asks, AITA for asking a woman to get off her phone at the puppet theater?(16:43) - AITA for asking my husband to cancel our anniversary trip to Everest?(32:12) - AITA for taking my granddaughter to the pumpkin patch without asking her mom?(47:10) - AITA for wanting to go to my friend's wedding without my wife?BEST way...
Published: Oct 29, 2025Duration: 58:46
762 AITA for asking why my co-worker wears make-up every day? (ft. Dana Berger)

762 AITA for asking why my co-worker wears make-up every day? (ft. Dana Berger)

The sponsor today is BETTERHELP. 10% off at betterhelp.com/aitapodHappy mon mon hun huns. I'm joined for a second time by my dear actor friend, New Yorker, and overall gem and a half, Dana,. Hope you guys enjoy and thanks for listening!!! (0:00) - Banter(13:59) - AITA for wanting my partner to help pay for her engagement ring?(22:46) - AITA for asking my gf to pay me back after she broke my gaming headset?(38:10) - AITA for asking why my co-worker wears make-up every day?BEST way to Submit a sitch o...
Published: Oct 27, 2025Duration: 51:53
760 AITA for being annoyed over a cabana? (ft. Sara)

760 AITA for being annoyed over a cabana? (ft. Sara)

The sponsor today is BETTERHELP. 10 percent off at Betterhelp.com/aitapodHAPPY mon mon hun huns. Enjoy the ep!!!(0:00) - banter(15:12) - AITA for walking to the subway despite previously agreeing to split a Uber?(22:08) - AITA for telling my brother the day he was born was the worst day of my life?(33:50) - AITA for being annoyed over a cabana?BEST way to Submit a sitch or comment: https://www.reddit.com/r/AITApod/Email - amitheahole@gmail.com Join Patreon! https://patreon.com/aitapodWhat's on P...
Published: Oct 20, 2025Duration: 45:43