AITApod (Am I The A**hole Podcast)

AITApod (Am I The A**hole Podcast)

byDanny Vega

ComedyEducationSelf-ImprovementSocietyCultureRelationships

Danny Vega and friends read listener submissions, & pilfers from the AITA subreddit to discuss modern questions of morality, relationships, and juice (gossip). Why? To answer one simple question: am I the a**hole? Submit at reddit.com/r/aitapod

Episodes(40 episodes)

669 TW - AITA for not renting to my sister's disabled friend? (ft. Keith Malley)

669 TW - AITA for not renting to my sister's disabled friend? (ft. Keith Malley)

tw - coarse humor, offensive, ignorant. Some people hated it. Don't kill me (some people also effing loved it)Presented AD FREE. I hope you will join on patreon and enjoy ALL EPISODES ad free, patreon.com/aitapodAccurate timestamps because there are no ads, wow magic. This could be your life frfr(0:00) - Banter(11:59) - AITA for wearing makeup around a friend's husband w a rush?(25:30) - AITA for refusing to let my friend's service dog into my house?(33:47) - AITA for not renting to my sister's disabled friend?<...
Published: Oct 16, 2025Duration: 52:55
758 AITA for carving a pumpkin for my classroom when it was a kid's contest? (ft. Mollie & Karla)

758 AITA for carving a pumpkin for my classroom when it was a kid's contest? (ft. Mollie & Karla)

The sponsor today: betterhelp.com/aitapod (for 10% off)Thanks for listening! Hope you are having or had a great holiday weekend(0:00) Banter(22:14) - AITA pumpkin cinnamon chili?(38:18) - AITA for taking my granddaughter to the pumpkin patch for the first time without asking her mom?(52:20) AITA for carving a pumpkin for my classroom?BEST way to Submit a sitch or comment: https://www.reddit.com/r/AITApod/Email - amitheahole@gmail.com Join Patreon! https://patreon.com/aitapodWhat's on Patreon?- 250+ Bonus eps- NO A...
Published: Oct 13, 2025Duration: 1:12:46
756 AITA for not moving on after gf's boss made moves? (ft. Sara)

756 AITA for not moving on after gf's boss made moves? (ft. Sara)

Today's sponsor: betterhelp.com/aitapod for 10% offFolks, I am joined by Sara Levine for a fantastic ep! Hope you enjoy :) (0:00) - Banter(8:57) - AITA for my gift choices to my wife?(21:44) - AITA for not being able to move on after my gf's boss tried to hook up w her?(42:50) - AITA for chiding an elderly man for not following local etiquette?BEST way to Submit a sitch or comment: https://www.reddit.com/r/AITApod/Email - amitheahole@gmail.com Join Patreon! https://patreon.com/aitapodWh...
Published: Oct 6, 2025Duration: 53:57
754 AITA for calling wife 'the warden' in the boys chat? (ft. Mollie)

754 AITA for calling wife 'the warden' in the boys chat? (ft. Mollie)

Happy mon mon hun huns, hope you had a great weekend. Enjoy the ep!(0:00) - Banter (The Yosemite Electric Unicycle Incident)(18:55) - AITA for wanting my GF to pay 50|50 rent?(32:19) - AITA for wanting to stick to plans?(41:57) I found out my husband has a secret group chat where he calls me "The Warden"?BEST way to Submit a sitch or comment: https://www.reddit.com/r/AITApod/Email - amitheahole@gmail.com Join Patreon! https://patreon.com/aitapodWhat's on Patreon?- 250+ Bonus eps- NO A...
Published: Sep 29, 2025Duration: 1:01:27
752 AITA for asking my server for a new meal bc he took mine early? (ft. Karla & Radu)

752 AITA for asking my server for a new meal bc he took mine early? (ft. Karla & Radu)

The sponsor today, Betterhelp.com/aitapod - 10% offFOLKS, I'm joined by Karla and Radu for this very fun episode filled with tales of love and lore (dunno what this means but I wrote it). (0:00) -hellos(0:32) - Danny accidentally kidnaps a girl(7:14) - Submish via Karla: WIBTA for revoking leftovers I promised my friend?(24:12) - AITA for wanting to leave my husband now that he's doing everything I wanted?(36:52) - AITA for asking my server to bring a new meal bc he took mine before I ate it?(51:46) - AITA for c...
Published: Sep 22, 2025Duration: 1:09:03
750 AITA for telling GF to shut up after she talked to the cops re: my minor car accident?   (ft. The Sara Levine)

750 AITA for telling GF to shut up after she talked to the cops re: my minor car accident? (ft. The Sara Levine)

Happy mon mon hun huns. I am joined by Sara Levine for one heckuva ep recorded in Queens in NEW YORK CITY (She's walkin' there!!!). Enjoy ahoy (i hate that but it's too late, I said). (0:00) - Banter(16:32) - AITA for asking my GF to shut up after a minor car accident?(29:34) - AITA for saying 'I'm sorry to hear that'?(38:34) - AITA for asking my current wife to stop body-shaming my ex-wife?BEST way to Submit a sitch or comment: https://www.reddit.com/r/AITApod/Email - amitheahole@gmail.com <br...
Published: Sep 15, 2025Duration: 47:11
748 AITA for living with my boyfriend for free? (ft. Radu and Karla)

748 AITA for living with my boyfriend for free? (ft. Radu and Karla)

Our sponsor today: Betterhelp.com/aitapod for 10% offGreat little ep with Radu and Karla has me saying emphatically... HAPPY MON MON HUN HUNS!(0:00) - Banter(16:22) - AITA for telling my wife she shouldn't reconnect w her past friend?(32:57) - AITA for living with my boyfriend for free? (46:07) - AITA for being unsupportive of my friend's career change?BEST way to Submit a sitch or comment: https://www.reddit.com/r/AITApod/Email - amitheahole@gmail.com Join Patreon! https://patreon.com/aitapodWhat's on Patreon?- 250+ Bo...
Published: Sep 8, 2025Duration: 1:05:03
746 AITA boyfriend peed the bed and is mad at me? (ft. Karla & Dani)

746 AITA boyfriend peed the bed and is mad at me? (ft. Karla & Dani)

FOLKS hope you're enjoying the three-day weekend :). Much love for all y'all!!!(0:00) - Banter(14:45) - AITA for having a new friend group?(30:27) - AITA boyfriend peed the bed and is mad at me?(39:55) - AITA for not telling my parents i got my tubes tied?(46:01) - Sweet dog (Bojack) having a dreamBEST way to Submit a sitch or comment: https://www.reddit.com/r/AITApod/Email - amitheahole@gmail.com Join Patreon! https://patreon.com/aitapodWhat's on Patreon?- 250+ Bonus eps- NO ADS a...
Published: Sep 1, 2025Duration: 49:28
744 AITA for having a micro-wedding? (ft. Sara)

744 AITA for having a micro-wedding? (ft. Sara)

I'm joined by Sara for a great ep-a-roo. Hope you enjoy it and have an awesome week. (0:00) - Banter(7:45) - I get more food when Chipotle-ing under a man's name(15:35) - AITA for having a micro-wedding?(29:10) - AITA for telling my boyfriend he can't buy a dirt bike?(40:11) - AITA for putting up a camera during my neighbor's pool build?BEST way to Submit a sitch or comment: https://www.reddit.com/r/AITApod/Email - amitheahole@gmail.com Join Patreon! https://patreon.com/aitapodWhat's on Patreon?<br...
Published: Aug 25, 2025Duration: 49:07
742 AITA for punching a girl at a party after she grabbed me?(ft. Mia Katz)

742 AITA for punching a girl at a party after she grabbed me?(ft. Mia Katz)

10% off Betterhelp therapy at betterhelp.com/AITApodHappy mon mon hun huns. I'm joined by amazing listener and friend Mia to discuss some juicy situations! Thanks for listening!!Follow Mia: https://www.instagram.com/thebluecarebear/?hl=en(0:00) - Banter(6:32) - AITA for saying I told you so when my ex beat up my bf? (19:06) - AITA for punching a girl at a party after she grabbed me?(31:29) - AITA for throwing a cup of old water on my naked husband?BEST way to Submit a sitch or comment: https://www.r...
Published: Aug 18, 2025Duration: 42:19
740 AITA for not removing my shoes causing wife to cancel DnD night? (ft. Aisha & Kari)

740 AITA for not removing my shoes causing wife to cancel DnD night? (ft. Aisha & Kari)

Join me, Kari, and AishaFollow Kari: https://www.instagram.com/assadkarirocks/Follow Aisha: https://www.instagram.com/aishaalfa/(0:00) - Banter(16:56) - AITA made people uncomfortable at a coffee shop?(35:19) - AITA for refusing to remove shoes causing wife to cancel DnD night? (51:22) - AITA for telling my coworker her baby looks like Danny Devito?BEST way to Submit a sitch or comment: https://www.reddit.com/r/AITApod/Email - amitheahole@gmail.com Join Patreon! https://patreon.com/aitapodWhat's on Patreon?- 250+ Bonus eps...
Published: Aug 11, 2025Duration: 1:03:30
738 AITA for walking off in pickleball bc my partner coached? (ft. Karla & Radu)

738 AITA for walking off in pickleball bc my partner coached? (ft. Karla & Radu)

Ad today by betterhelp. Betterhelp.com/aitapod for 10% off Happy mon mon hun huns. Hope y'all had a great weekend!!!(0:00) - Banter(8:18) - AITA for getting a shed my neighbor can see the back of?(27:29) - AITA for bringing hazelnut coffee over?(34:48) - AITA for walking off mid pickleball game bc my partner's coaching?BEST way to Submit a sitch or comment: https://www.reddit.com/r/AITApod/Email - amitheahole@gmail.com Join Patreon! https://patreon.com/aitapodWhat's on Patreon?- 250+ Bonus eps- NO...
Published: Aug 4, 2025Duration: 48:19
736 AITA for showering my GF's dog without any clothes on? (ft. Mollie)

736 AITA for showering my GF's dog without any clothes on? (ft. Mollie)

The sponsor today is betterhelp. 10% off at betterhelp.com/aitapodEnjoy the ep!! Love ya. (0:00) - Banter(22:30) - AITA for asking someone to relinquish an outdoor cafe table?(34:29) - AITA for telling my friend he shouldn't have used AI to write a memorial?(52:38) - AITA for showering my GF's dog without any clothes on?BEST way to Submit a sitch or comment: https://www.reddit.com/r/AITApod/Email - amitheahole@gmail.com Join Patreon! https://patreon.com/aitapodWhat's on Patreon?- 250+ Bonus eps- NO...
Published: Jul 28, 2025Duration: 1:08:21
734 AITA for using cannabis despite my wife's disapproval? (ft. Mollie)

734 AITA for using cannabis despite my wife's disapproval? (ft. Mollie)

The sponsor today is Betterhelp. Betterhelp.com/aitapod for 10% off(0:00) - Banter(17:31) - AITA for asking my husband's friends not to make him the butt of jokes?(35:19) - AITA for using cannabis despite my wife's disapproval?(53:16) - AITA for telling my dad not to yell people's full names in public?BEST way to Submit a sitch or comment: https://www.reddit.com/r/AITApod/Email - amitheahole@gmail.com Join Patreon! https://patreon.com/aitapodWhat's on Patreon?- 250+ Bonus eps- NO ADS and accurate timestamps<b...
Published: Jul 21, 2025Duration: 1:05:51
732 AITA for not telling my GF the secret about a TV show? (ft. Mollie)

732 AITA for not telling my GF the secret about a TV show? (ft. Mollie)

GOOD MORNING FOLKS. It's monday and I'm joined by a good friend of Andy my brother, Mollie. It's a fun ep and I hope you enjoy it. THank you for listening and I love you!!(0:00) - Banter(18:19) - AITA for not doing yoga with my girlfriend?(30:03) - AITA for not telling my GF the actual plot of a TV show?(47:19) - AITA for drinking fruit juice when my partner doesn't like it?BEST way to Submit a sitch or comment: https://www.reddit.com/r/AITApod/Email - amitheahole@gmail.com <br...
Published: Jul 14, 2025Duration: 1:08:28
730 AITA for refusing to hang out with my sister's bf bc he's boring? (ft. Kari & Aisha)

730 AITA for refusing to hang out with my sister's bf bc he's boring? (ft. Kari & Aisha)

Happy mon mon hon hons. I'm joined by charmers and comedians Kari and Aisha!!! Follow Kari: https://www.instagram.com/assadkarirocks/Follow Aisha: https://www.instagram.com/aishaalfa/(0:00) - banter(14:15) - AITA for revealing the rental cost of my van after the trip?(33:14) - AITA for refusing to hang out with my sister's boyfriend bc he's boring?(51:51) - AITA husband wants to wear extremely revealing swim shorts?BEST way to Submit a sitch or comment: https://www.reddit.com/r/AITApod/Email - amitheahole@gmail.com Join Patreon! ht...
Published: Jul 7, 2025Duration: 1:04:49
728 AITA for asking my partner to stop telling me 'lower your volume'?

728 AITA for asking my partner to stop telling me 'lower your volume'?

I'm joined by friends Mollie and Dina to discuss some situations! Happy mon mon hon hons :) (0:00) - Banter(20:38) - AITA for asking my partner to stop telling me 'lower your volume'?(32:29) - AITA for not letting my co-worker use my lotion?(49:27) - AITA for leaving dinner early after my bf's friend called me "the current one"?Dina: https://www.instagram.com/wildcardyogi_/Mollie: https://www.instagram.com/mollielollie2/me and Selene, Mollie's late, dear husky: https://www.instagram.com/p/CSLHRndFKqv/BEST way to Submit a...
Published: Jun 30, 2025Duration: 1:01:54
726 AITA for declining to be a groomsmen in my best friend's wedding?

726 AITA for declining to be a groomsmen in my best friend's wedding?

I'm joined by Karla and Dani for a frankly banger episode. Happy mon mon hun huns to you and yours!(0:00) - Banter(15:23) - AITA for declining to be a groomsmen in one of my best friend's weddings?(33:03) - AITA for backing out on a night with friends we haven't seen for a decade?(43:47) - AITA for making my friend buy a whole new bathing suit after it was returned with a sh*t stain?BEST way to Submit a sitch or comment: https://www.reddit.com/r/AITApod/Email - amitheahole@gmail...
Published: Jun 23, 2025Duration: 57:10
724 AITA for bringing food to my friend's party? (ft. Karla & Dani Adaliz)

724 AITA for bringing food to my friend's party? (ft. Karla & Dani Adaliz)

The sponsor today is betterhelp. Betterhelp.com/aitapod for 10% off. Happy mon mon hun huns :DToday's episode features Karla and DaniDani's insta: https://www.instagram.com/danicoqui/?hl=enKarla: https://www.instagram.com/fun_kee/?hl=en(0:00) - Banter / Danny and Karla resolve Tradwifegate and Backgate(27:08) - Karla's grandma wants her to get a boyfriend before she dies(36:51) - WIBTA if I charged my friend for her daughter ruining my furniture?(47:46) - AITA for refusing to let my friend bring her emotional support dog to my ho...
Published: Jun 16, 2025Duration: 1:21:19
722 AITA for saying ride share apps should let ppl request women drivers? (ft. Evyenia & Alex)

722 AITA for saying ride share apps should let ppl request women drivers? (ft. Evyenia & Alex)

I'm joined by Evyenia and Alex Paisley Stedman!Follow Evyenia: https://www.instagram.com/nia_bois/Follow APS: https://www.instagram.com/alex.paisley.stedman/(0:00) - Banter(15:50) - AITA for not inviting my best friend to my apartment warming party?(28:27) - AITA for saying ride share apps should allow women to request women drivers?(39:17) - AITA for expecting my boyfriend to include me in memorial day plans despite being unable to swim?BEST way to Submit a sitch or comment: https://www.reddit.com/r/AITApod/Email...
Published: Jun 9, 2025Duration: 49:14